The thing is i have liked her for a while and without even thinking I rushed and asked her out and she said no. and now i like her more than ever and don't know what to do. she used to like me about a month before i asked her out but she doesn't now and i dont know what to do because now i like her much more. so please help me out.
2007-01-27 06:38:51 · 20 answers · asked by zander g1313 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her out again. if she says no. then leave it at that
2007-01-27 06:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend for now. Open up and show her that you trust her. If you don't know her number say 'hey we should swap numbers so we can keep in contact.' Then call her and ask her if she wants to tag-along with you to the movies or something. Catch a movie that you aren't super interested in and sit in the back. Just kind of talk to her through the movie when different scenes remind you of things. If she thought it was fun you probably have a new girlfriend and if not well I guess she just doesn't like you in that way at all.
2007-01-27 06:44:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only like her more because she has already turned you down once. Guys always want a girl they can't have or know they can't have which will make it harder on you. Ask her out again. If she says no, move on which will be hard. Girls like a lot of attention from guys and she is probably playing a game with you. If she says no again, I wouldn't bother with her anymore. Like playing hard to get. She will come around eventually when she notices you no asking her out anymore and not even paying attention to her. Just focus on your studies for a little bit and see where it goes.
2007-01-27 06:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by ~M*a*N*d*Y~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have gotten scared because you rushed into the relationship. If you try to talk to her and just be your self she might become your friend. Once you are friends you can ask she out if she starts to feel the same way about you again.
2007-01-27 06:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by carebear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats sad. If she says no then probably it means No.
1. If u like to be more closer to her then find her best friend and make a very good friendship with her...from this u ll come closer to her.
2.make her laugh by making some humour talks.
3. make her jeolouse by making new female freinds.
4. be nice and do nice
5. talk about fasion.movies ,cosmetics etc etc girls talks....read some magazines to update urself.
6. show u r intelligent and funny coz girls like fun.
7. be jolley but talk softly with respect.
8. don't use bad language
9. never say something bad about others..i mean don't do back biting in front of her
10. if u make urself closer to her best friend..tell bestfriend good stuffs of hers...she will surely tell her.
11. don't ever ask her to go out with her unless she is ready
12. use ur body language
.....................lot sof things u can do to make her close to you...best of luck and be happy.
2007-01-27 06:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rebuild your friendship with her again, becuase it seems like it sort sort of crashed when u asked her out a little too early than what she was looking for.Dont rush things and just become good friends now. Im sure she was just caught off gaurd and she might be regretting saying no
2007-01-27 06:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you blew it. Seriously there not much you can do. its time to move on. But here how to act when you do see her again, so that maybe you can have another shot. Be cocky and funny. Tease her in a way to make her laugh and at the same time kindof confused like does this guy like me or not. and dont be a wuss around her. Create excitement and do interesting things, and maybe she will become attracted to you and want to start hanging out with you again. at that point continue to do what i said and you got a shot, but dont be all "I love you i want to be with you, will you be my girl" wuss, that never works. read david deangleo doubleyourdating.com
2007-01-27 07:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay you say she liked you before so theres a chance those feelings could come back , you got to show her the person you realy are obviosly she likes that person cause she did once before don't try to hard things always go wrong when you do that, and let her know how you feel
good luck i hope all goes well
2007-01-27 06:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how did you f22k up, and got on her bad side?
If she denies it then try to get to know her a little better
by not asking her out on a date, rather something small
and unanounced like , lunch or coffee before making plans.
2007-01-27 06:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first really think about why you like her. Then get to now her, hang out with her more, and tell her nice compliments. Example:O Iike the way your pants look. But don't make it sound to girly.
2007-01-27 06:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her a little more and don't rush, and just know that you can't make someone like you. Just give it a little time.
2007-01-27 06:47:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋