consider the case which he have left you for at least a year to study some where
2007-01-27 06:10:50 · 42 answers · asked by a_beautiful_mind_19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
In my opinion you should not really react, you cold have two ways out of this one that might solve the problem and one that might go wrong, it mostly depends on what your boyfriend is like.
you see
1 solution: Find out one more new boyfriend and try to make your boyfriend jealous and if he likes you he might feal a bit guilty and come back to you. THIS MIGHT COMPLETELY GO WROND IT MOSTLY DEPENDS ON WHAT YOUR BOY FREIND IS LIKE
2 solution: React in a calm way, have a nice chat with him and sort the mater out that why he has got a new girlfreind and wiould he be your boyfreind again in future
2007-01-27 06:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by jay 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him. Don't make him choose. You don't need that. A woman deserves to have complete attention from her man and he can't do that if he has another female in the picture. Even if he says he cares about you more than her and that he will leave her for you don't listen. We all come across bumps like this in our lives and its pointless to rationalise or make excuses for him let it be... and find someone who is up front and honest. Its much easier said than done, but fast forward a month from now and look back. You will be saying why did I waste time on this kid when he clearly didn't care and wasn't any good. In the end it is up to you and you can take him back if you like, but because you do doesn't change him. If it happens again you must leave. Not because of him, but for yourself. There is no reason to keep putting up a fight if he is going to continue to knock you out.
Best of luck
Shiva
2007-01-27 06:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by Yum with no animals involved 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know he's dating someone else, dump him!
If you're just afraid that he might be unfaithful because he left to study somewhere, think about it--do you have any valid reason to believe that there is another girl? As someone who plans on studying abroad in the next few years, I plan on being faithful to my boyfriend if I have one. I may not be with him, and I may not talk to him more than once a week, but that doesn't mean I'm dating someone else; it means I'm busy.
However, if it's been over two weeks without any contact (and he didn't tell you beforehand that he wouldn't call), I think you have a valid reason to suspect that he doesn't want to be with you.
Example: When I left to go to college, yes, I was busy. But I was in a very messy situation in which I had a boyfriend and someone else who thought we were together. I didn't really want to be with either of them, and try as I might, I couldn't successfully break up with either guy. Because I didn't want to be with them, I didn't call either of them since September, even though I had plenty of time to do so.
Good luck!
2007-01-27 06:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A shotgun, some binliners, a chainsaw and a quiet country spot...Or the less messy approach is:
1) If he says he loves you more than her: Dump him!
2) If he says it meant nothing: Dump him!
Tell him he has an hour to pack his stuff and get lost or you will show him some interesting thing to do with a wet sponge, a car battery and some jump leads!
2007-01-27 06:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you two are still officially together, it is still decietful and he is technically cheating. It probably would not have worked out if you tried to spend a year apart without being with each other at all the entire time, but you should end it. If he wants to rekindle the relationship when he is back, try it, but right now, you should just let him go and do what he wants.
2007-01-27 06:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that you are even asking this question instead if dumping him just shows what a **** you are. Maybe just maybe he knows that you wont dump him and will continue to string you and the other girl along. I just hope she wises up and does what needs to be done and gives him a swift kick in the soft parts!
2007-01-29 06:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well i would kill him but seen as thought he is somewhere else i would get rid of him and find someone else. You can always guarantee if a guy is going away without you and only sees you when he can he is going to cheat on you sometime. So he has a girlfriend in another town and u in his own town. Tell him to get lost not all men are creaps. He just cant keep his willy in his pants he needs it chopping off the creep.
2007-01-27 08:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I want to say buy a shotgun but that wouldnt be very grown up of me..lol Dump the sucker in front of his friends and family telling them all what he has done! My mother always told me you have to go through a few mogrels till you find your pedigree...she hasnt been wrong! There is always better out there, you just have to hope and look. I wish you the best with this problem...men hey!!
2007-01-27 06:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump him and run away as fast as I could.
I'd rather be on my own than with someone I could no longer trust or respect. As far as I'm concerned, it doesn't matter where he's been or for how long, if he had any morals he would have told you at the time that he met another woman.
Of course, it is entirely your decision, Good luck!
2007-01-27 06:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by lululaluau 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would break up with him. Even though I did go away for a year. That is just wrong to date two people at the same time. Us girls need the perfect man to be with and he is obviously not the one. I am sorry if I sound harsh. I hope this helps.
2007-01-27 06:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by Dancer 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋