Why does he not feel attached to her after a session of deep and passionate amazing sex.
2007-01-27 05:52:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Because they didn't develop an emotional bond BEFORE having sex.
2007-01-27 06:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love these questions where women answer how guys feel towards certain things just as much as how men talk about how women feel especially when there are maybe 60 words of a relationship to base your theory on. It would be just as easy to ask why he didn't use blue paint in a room instead of green when the question or option was never placed before him to begin with. You need to go back to the only person who can answer this for an accurate response and that would be him.
2007-01-28 05:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Braveheart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men do not always connect good sex with love. In fact this is more true the younger or more immature the male is. Most young men equate sex with conquest as a rule. On rare occasions does cupid also play a role.
What conqueror wants to conquer the same territory twice unnecessarily?!
2007-01-27 06:24:42 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Out of the five men that I have had relationships with only two made passionate love again and again for quite some time. The other three (at college) were just looking for fun.
2007-01-27 10:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by Naazneen D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
9 times out of 10, it may SEEM passionate to the woman, but to the man, it's just steamy sex. It's not all that. So, she's got it wrong from the get go if she thinks he's all hot for her just because he got some.
2007-01-27 09:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. He doesn't want her afterward because she might interfere with his having sensational sex with another woman.
2. Men are made different from women. Women are nesters, men are the sowers of their seed.
My theory is that if there was no taboo against polyamory, we'd all be happier.
2007-01-29 19:06:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're confusing love with phucking, which is what most women do. A man's desire to control your body and use it as he pleases for an hour or so is a high like no other, however, after he comes he then has to entertain what many men call that nagging whiney voice that I can barely stand.
Eventually, if your dumb enough, his lust to control your body again will arise again, usually late late at night, and he'll come back for another crack at it and as soon as he's done with you, the only thing he'll be thinking is how fast can I get out of here and go drinking with my freinds.
2007-01-27 07:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by huckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For a female sex is like 90% emotional, for a guy it's the oposite 90% physical. The attachment just doesn't happen the way the male brain is wired I guess.
2007-01-27 07:00:12 · answer #8 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"Why buy the cow when you can have the milk for free?"
Sex does not create intimacy. It is supposed to be an expression of intimacy between husband and wife that already exists. When people have sexual relations, but not in an appropriate marriage relationship, intimacy is stifled, not encouraged.
2007-01-27 06:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Not all men are that way.
A lot of women are more attracted to the "bad boy" / "player" type, and think that a "nice guy" is boring.
If that's your case, then maybe you should re-evaluate your priorities, because you can't have it both ways.
2007-01-27 06:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Jake 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋