yes- i have felt the pain of losing the love of my husband. he fell in love with someone else,and left me ,after 9 years of marriage. i was devastated too. and i almost lost my home. i owned it when we met, and he moved in. over the years, we went into debt together, buying boats, campers, creditcards, etc. and when he left, i "owed' him,so i either had to give him his share of the house, or something equilivant.so he got the boat, camper and other various items, and i paid the payments. all this ,so he and his new love could have a good time. so- not only was i broken- hearted, but i was also struggling to keep a roof over my head. but- take heart. first you need to acknowledge that you are in pain. its ok.let it out. then ,you need to look deep inside and find the self-pride and self-love that you once had for yourself. dont worry that you feel like hell inside, just keep in your mind that no man is going to destroy you ,and that people everywhere have gotten over this, and you will too. find the will to try and improve yourself-get a new haircut, start exercising, take classes somewhere. whatever will make you feel like you are on the road to self-improvement. some of the most together, confident, and happy people ,owe their lives to someone who rejected them,and put them on their new road.once you learn this and get started, you will not want to look back ,or to go back. best wishes
2007-01-27 06:14:19
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answered by DEBI M 3
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Some people just grow apart after time. I would try to rekindle what you two had. Maybe do a date night or surprise him with something that he likes to do. Hopefully he will see you trying and he will do the same.
2007-01-27 13:57:20
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answered by luvsreward 2
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