well i am a college senior and i have a major crush on a year younger girl in my college , and i just cant say anything to her ,the first time i talked 2 her i was so nervous i told her that i am seniour and if she needs anything i wil help her and every time i meet her the only thing we talk about is exams and proffeseurs and thats lame and i realy like this girl so can any one can tell me anything to make me move forward with her ?
(BTW i am from egypt so its inapropriate 2 ask her on a date or 2 meet me out of the college, cause girls dont do that unless she knows the guy very much)
2007-01-27 05:49:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do something special for her for Valentine's Day.
2007-01-27 05:54:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can you really say that you love her even if you haven't gotten to know her? I think what your feeling is probably lust. What you should do is try to get to know her better. You say she won't date you unless she knows you well, so why not try to get to know her? You may feel nervous but why is that ? There's no reason to be, nobody is perfect. Women like men to be themselves. So that's exactly what you should do. Break the ice by asking her different questions instead of talking about school. Tell her to have lunch with you or something and get to know her. Hope I could help
2007-01-27 05:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to study with you, if you have any common classes. You're not asking for a date, and since you always talk about exams and professors, it's not too far out of what seems to be your comfort zone. While you're studying, as time goes on you'll get a little more comfortable with being around here, and you can start asking questions about other things, or just getting to know each other.
2007-01-27 05:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you have to decided you have a crush on her or you are in love with her and don't forget there is a hell of a difference between love and crush. You can see in todays answers a question about crush and love. Secondly you are in that part of world where these things are not easy to be expressed but I will just tell you one thing If you are truly in love with her then you don't need to tell it to her as love has its own language and that is not spoken with tongue. Believe it or not if you really love her She knows it already so just wait for sometime when you both will be able to speak it out for your inner satisfaction otherwise you both know it.
2007-01-27 06:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by dua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this one is easy! well, i would know because i am a girl. first offer to carry her books to class. next ask her what her intrest are. then the big finale. if she still likes you ask her on a date!! take her somewhere romantic where the lights are dim and everything is quiet just stare into her eyes. bring all your money so she can order whatever she wants. then as the night goes on you will probly kiss her. then take her to the movies and tell her she can watch whatever she pleases to! i m most certain the night will end terriffic! for you and her both. if what i wrote doesn't work well then i do not know what to do!
2007-01-27 06:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by ~victoria~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to go for coffee or something after class or before. I'm sure that's not considered a date. There you can surely have the opportunity to change the subject from exams and studying.
2007-01-27 05:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ghidorah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Her !! That you have been interested in telling a girl at the school that you have a major cruch on her!!>>> and if she has any advice for you on how you should approch this matter >> if she does great !!>>if not>> listen and reply ( to both answer:: " What if I told you this girls am talking about is you ;) trust me it always works...
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2007-01-27 06:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by Adult MySpace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably already knows that you like her just by your body language. She is probably waiting for you to make the first move. Why not write her a note on a piece of paper proposing a date and hand it to her sometime.
2007-01-27 05:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by Time4Tivo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is a cute one:
next tiem you talk to her
right before you guys seperate
say "elephant shoes"
most likely she'll ask what or something like that
then tell her to go look in the mirror and say "elephant shoes"
when she does this it will look like "i love you"
its adorable and cute, and fun
but make sure it when you guys seperate otherwise its awkward
and only say i love you if you mean it
just an idea
good luck = ]
2007-01-27 05:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Micky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a cafe or something at the college? Maybe you can ask her out for a coffee? You can even make a joke about it, such as, "We always talk about school. I want to find out about YOU!"
2007-01-27 05:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Chrissy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her to study with you. You could go to a coffee shop or something like that and study. That way you could also get to know each other too.
2007-01-27 05:59:55 · answer #11 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋