Or b/f that you believe is the one for you, is married with a 3rd child on the way, abuses his wife and has cheated on his wife with another and just had kids with the other woman and then one day got a a call from her or was confronted by her not in an agressive way but to tell you that you deserve better because he is scum.Would you then tell him that you spoke to his wife and then found out that went home to tell his wife he his sick of her and said the worst to her then he left her to stay with you will you take him?
2007-01-27 05:38:52 · 21 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely confront him. It sounds sick enough to be true, and maybe he's just a really good liar. You might want to believe him, but you really don't deserve a guy that'd treat his family like crap.
2007-01-27 05:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No! If you know that this man is abusive why would you put yourself as well as his wife in a situation to be hurt? If he was the one for you and you two shared something good why did you not hear of these things from him? One thing in building a strong foundation in a relationship is honesty and it does not seem as though he was upfront with you from the get go. Would it really make you feel good or special knowing that he is leaving another woman for you? There shouldn't be another woman in the picture in the first place. How long have you been speaking to this man if he has a third child on the way... this means he has been sleeping with the wife and the other woman who has a child coming as well. I would not take him. It sounds easier said than done, but if he will not be truthful with you then you need to be truthful with yourself and really examine the situation for what it is... not an ideal one. In the end it is up to you, but think 5, 10, 15 years from now will you be the one calling another female to warn her about him?
I wish you the best of luck
and please be safe
2007-01-27 05:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by Yum with no animals involved 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is like this, than he really isn't the one for u... if he treats his wife, or soon-to-be ex-wife this way, what makes u think he wont treat u the same way later on down the road? I would confront him, or meet up with his wife and confront him together... If u feel he is 'the one' for u, then there is always someone else who u can feel the same about... He doesn't seem like he really is 'the one' for the simple fact that he is married and cheating on her when she is pregnant... U are just helping him hurt her. Do u really wanna be the one to break up their marriage?
2007-01-27 06:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by buddahbump 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't take him in. The poor wife, i would have more respect for myself and i would find a man who has respect for me, why would u bother with a two timer wife beating scum bag for? and the poor kids, i hope the wife gets rid of him too and gets a better man. i wouldn't put up with a man like that id rather be single until i found the right one.
2007-01-27 05:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Don 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that you are soooooo special that he won't abuse you if he gets the chance. You should leave this MARRIED MAN ALONE. There are a million men in this world!! I know that a tree is not growing out of your face so GET A LIFE !! Your very lucky that this woman did not kill you, people have died for less!!! YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED !!!!!
2007-01-27 05:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by santasha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what you just said . If he kept all this from you then he isn't the man for you. Most men will say what you want to hear and make you feel like they are the one. but in do time you will know deep down if they really are the one. Someone that don't keep things from you.So get rid of him and find you someone who isn't going to keep things from you. Good Luck!
2007-01-27 05:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by mandimaydowhatshepleases 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women if hes done it to her more then once, what makes you think he won't do it to you? Your best bet is to let him go, and tell him never to come back. he deserves what his wife throws at him. he just isn't the kind of man, you shouldn't be with. are you that hard up for a relationship?
2007-01-27 05:51:09 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, run and keep running.
That woman has been married to him, she has done you a kindness.
Get out of there, and learn to love yourself; only then will you get to meet a REAL man, who deserves you.
Don't give this guy the the time of day
2007-01-27 05:45:39 · answer #9 · answered by marie m 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
for a start once charter always a charter what makes you think you re any diff rent to his wife when he met her i bet she pleased him just as much as you do now few years down the line she became unpleasing just like you will be in a few years still think the both of you stand a chance keep dreaming
2007-01-30 11:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by tubby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋