I'm not intimate with my new gentleman friend because he has hair growth under his short beard that looks shaggy and unkept. It turns me off totally ! What is a nice way to tell him or should I just move on and find a different love interest ?
2007-01-27 05:38:28 · 24 answers · asked by search 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him
"I'm not intimate with my new gentleman friend because he has hair growth under his short beard that looks shaggy and unkept. It turns me off totally !"
Let him know what is important to you in your relationship. That's good advice for any relationship.
2007-01-27 05:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by dullorb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him that he will be caught by the police for keeping a beard even a short one as they say most terrorists have beards
2007-01-27 13:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by akband 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the truth!
Tell him that you aren't touching him until it either gets groomed or it goes.
There's no other way around it.
I have a beard and I've had it for 25 years and if I am dating a woman that can't stand it, she doesn't deserve me but I keep it nicely groomed and trimmed.
2007-01-27 14:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he would look so much better with it shaved. My bf has a beard and mustache, but sometimes it just gets crazy and I tell him that it's ugly. And he always ends up fixing it. =)
2007-01-27 13:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well communication is key!!!! tell him, if he doesn't change well tell him again and ask him why won't he do so for you. I don't think you should dump him, well.. unless you don't love him. But hey you be the judge of this one...Just plain and simple, ask him to shave and tell him why.
good luck Chica!! :O)
2007-01-27 13:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try something sexy, like shaving him yourself. Then get intimate and keep telling him how good and sexy he looks shaved, and how he turns you on. No man can resists that, believe me.
Good luck!
xoxo
Gizeh
2007-01-27 13:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Gizeh Z. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shaka--When you two are in bed, put a Bic in his hand, get one for yourself, and shave your private parts, shave his private parts, and move up to his beard, and make it a romantic thing.
2007-01-27 13:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that it looks bad and tell him to shave. Don't waste time trying to make his feelings feel better. THE TRUTH MUST BE HEARD!
2007-01-27 13:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't break it off just because of a little hair on his beard- just make fun of him for it, but make it obvious that you don't like it.
2007-01-27 13:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anodyne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you would love to see him shave.
2007-01-27 13:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by White Shooting Star of HK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋