I was told that I'm really hot. And I'm happy with that, but I can't tell if my boyfriend like me for me or if he's just in it for the ***. I mean I do have boys literally lined up to go out with me, but what should I do?
2007-01-27 05:19:27 · 25 answers · asked by Queen B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
idk i guess u have to just face the truth
2007-01-27 05:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I see it is not a matter of if your boyfriend loves you, If you are looking at those boys in the line, Are you sure you love you boyfriend? may be he is jus doing the same thing you are doing,
what it thing is happening is that you suffer insecurity and you need the acceptance of others (as when they tell you you are hot) love is a kind of energy that you give and is always abundant, is always in you, so love is something that you do, no matter what the recipient of your love does,
For the practical world
don't be afraid to ask him what is going on, only you know what idoes it feel, trust your self.
2007-01-27 05:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by dragonisaac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is follow your moral ground. What I mean is the way you can find out if your boyfriend really likes you is to keep intimacy out of it. If he cant handle that then maybe he is but only you can really decide that. The other thing you have to do is be true to your self.The other guys that are "lined up to go out with you" what are they looking for? A good time or a good person and a long lasting relationship?
Good luck with your situation.
2007-01-27 05:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by Big T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is both a blessing and curse to be 'hot'. Often you are never taken seriously.
Anyway, the best way to tell is to of course deny him the ***. Concentrate on building a relationship and tell him that too.
One thing you will have to conscious of is your body language and how you carry yourself. When you are attractive, guys will often read more into those areas than you intend to project.
If necessary 'play down' your attractiveness by dressing down. Don't wear makeup or revealing clothing when you first start dating, you can always 'improve' your looks as the relationship progresses.
2007-01-27 05:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by sagegranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test him. Wear ugly clothing or put on a little bit too much make up. wear layers so that ur chest looks smaller and go out with him and see his reaction. If he treats you the same as before he's in this for you. if not he was only in it for the goods.
2007-01-27 05:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and have a good time - DO NOT SLEEP WITH THEM!!
keep yourself pure for your someday husband, why give bits and pieces away to guys who don't invest..think! Have fun and if they're serious, they'll stick around no matter what.
2007-01-27 05:24:09 · answer #6 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fantastic way to test for that.
Tell him that you are not going to have sex with him, either until marriage, or a nice long period of your choosing. Then stick to it.
If he loves you, he is there for you and whether or not you have sex (though it may, no, probably), will disappoint him,because he loves you enough to honor your choice, he will still be there for you and he will wait it out.
If he is simply there for the sex, then he'll be gone faster than you can say "Hormone driven nincompoop that is not worthy or your time, attention, body, trust, and love."
2007-01-27 05:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by peacedevi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know what you mean. im 16 and i have seniors all over me and younger boyz. its annoying. being in a smaller town guys go after the.......prettiest girl.
first you need to figure out if hes going out with you do you have sex with your boyfriends. becus if thats what going on its not your looks its becus your loose.
but if you dont
its your looks, dont be a trophy for a guy.
2007-01-27 05:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anna Costner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect yourself and your body. Dont go giving sx to every guy just cause they want it. As a matter of fact dont have sx at all. then you will know what guy likes you for you. its the only way to tell.
2007-01-27 05:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to suspend sex and see what he does ask him about commitment and stuff and whatever is the answer that he gives then you would definitely know what he's thinking.
2007-01-27 05:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with a boy who just wants sex. there is more to a relationship than that
2007-01-27 05:23:41 · answer #11 · answered by Batson D. Belfrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋