he hugs and tells me he's very sorry, he likes me but he doesn't show it as much as i thought he would.
2007-01-27 05:18:52 · 11 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once really liked this guy (okay, this is a repeating theme in my life) who said he liked me. He called me "irresistable" and one night after a party we made out for hours. I thought I had it in the bag, that at last I had him where I wanted him.
For weeks afterwards, I would call him to see how he was. He'd tell me that he was busy right then but he'd call me when he was done, and then never do it, or that we'd hang out that night and then never call. One day I confronted him about it and asked when we were actually going to hang out and he told me that he had a lot going on and didn't want to be committed to anything he might not want to do later.
Well, that was the last straw. If he wanted to decide to blow me off at the last minute, I deserved better. I never called him again.
I'm sorry to say it but this sounds like where you are. This boy does not want to feel tied down to you or committed to keeping his word, and if he liked you that much or was much of a man at all, he would not have trouble doing that. He may not be a bad person but he obviously wants something different from life and relationships than you do. Stop calling him and getting yourself more and more attached, because it just hurts more the more fond you grow of him.
Picture the man of your dreams, and if the one you've got doesn't match, move on. Remember what an amazing girl you are and don't settle for less than you deserve!
2007-01-27 05:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he tells you that so you won't feel like hes blowing you off, but when he does, I'm sure he acts like hes sorry and "something came up". I think he says those things because he doesnt want to hurt you, but if he acts like that all the time, I would just try and move on.
2007-01-27 05:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by riss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats unfair coz I'm having the same prob as you. Maybe coz he has better things to do than hang out with you (not tryiong to be offending), I mean thats what I think.
2007-01-27 05:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by Caribou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He only wants to keep u around for when he has no one else to hang out with. Hince, if he tells you he wants to hang out and then his plans for the evening fall through, there you are.
2007-01-27 05:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kamryn's Mommie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are waiting by a phone or being stood up then it is a clear sign that he is using u for his doormat. find a new hangout buddy.
2007-01-27 05:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he blows you off he obviously doesn't want to see you, or he would. Forget him.
2007-01-27 05:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just not that much into you, so move on, you deserve to be happy, and you should want more for yourself!
2007-01-27 05:25:40 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is out to get la.i.d . Assume that he's getting it from somewhere else. Dis the creep!
2007-01-27 05:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't, he will never unless you nag him. If you nag him, he will just get annoyed and will take off and run.
2007-01-27 05:24:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt wanna hang with u, but doesnt wanna hurt ur feelings
2007-01-27 05:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋