My bf has almost all female friends. Whenever he makes new friends, they are girls. He recently told me he wants to spend more time with friends. But these are not friends he's had for a long time, these are new people he met. For example, he offers to take a girl he met off an internet site out for coffee. Or, a girl he just met at the mall. Or, a friend of his coworker who occasionally stops by. Admittedly, he adds them to his msn and they chat off and on first. He usually pays for activities, even for just friends. I know it's not wrong in principle to make new friends or want to spend more time with them. But something about the fact he is meeting new girl friends instead of just hanging out with his old friends, and that he is likely paying for their activities ... is the line not somewhat blurred here? I don't feel like he's intending to cheat; rather I feel he's sampling around for potential others, which I think is wrong when you're still in a relationship.
2007-01-27 05:11:35 · 13 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have a right to be worried but i wouldnt put too much thought towards it yet wait to see if he starts changing in personality or looks or something like that
2007-01-27 05:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down, and ask him where his head is at? Tell him it seems as if he is not ready to be in a relationship, right now, since he has to be meeting so many females. Tell him it may be best for the two of you go your separate ways. Now this may be hard for you to do, but do not stay in a relationship, where you are the one who is being hurt, you deserve more, and you deserve to be happy.
2007-01-27 05:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that stupid? Of course hes messing around on you. Ask yourself why he never takes you,with him? ,why does he go to meet them. your in for a problem with him, if you don't put a stop to it. Or you can do the same thing. start meeting guys and seehow he likes it. Or just say your leaving and don't bother calling you.
2007-01-27 05:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel very upset and end the relationship immediately. Did you ever tell him how you feel about it?
I will have a cow and say he can have all the internet who_es
that he wants to have. Addio's I now gone
2007-01-27 05:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Emily L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your own voice.
He's a player and is playing you like a fiddle.
Use your common sense and get away from him, he's wasting your precious time.
He's dating these women.
I sure hope you're not bedding him. This is opportunity for diseases.
Get away from him, he's using you.
2007-01-27 05:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why doesn't he involve you with meeting these new girls!.. as there just "friends".....how would he feel if you had all male mates! I've got loads of female friends myself but there the same friends as my partners! good luck
2007-01-27 05:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the hell away from this jerk. He's trolling the waters for his next girlfriend. This is not appropriate behavior. You can't change him, either.
2007-01-27 05:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is, Dump his ***.
If he is not satisfied with one girl in his life, he doesn't deserve that girl. Get yourself a guy who cares.
2007-01-27 05:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find yourself a new man
2007-01-27 05:15:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he's a player.
2007-01-27 05:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋