I have this friend and we have been friends for 4-5 years and i really really like him.I asked him out like 2 times and he told me had a girlfriend, but when i told his friend she said that he told her he doesnt want to ruin the friendship. What do i do! I REALLY REALLY like him!
2007-01-27 04:38:08 · 7 answers · asked by Clueless 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Pain & Pain Management
Tell him that he's really special to you and if it doesn't work out in the first week it will be over and you'll always be friends;;always. Don;t move to fast in this scenario, wait awhile before teh first kiss. Do it when it feels right.
2007-01-27 04:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by skiipxxaxxbeat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to go ahead and assume you are not an adult. Is that a correct assumption? I am going to guess you are between 12 and 16-17 or so. You want to date your friend? I can see where you are coming from, but if he doesn't want to ruin the friendship, then don't pressure him into that. Some of the best marriage relationships I know, started out being just friends and then really good friends, best friends, then they started dating and they are married now and have the healthiest marriage relationship I know of. I understand REALLY REALLY liking him, but for now, it is probably best to just stay friends. Who knows, he may still become your future husband....Best of luck. Life is short, pray; HARD!!!
2007-01-27 14:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a bit of prroblem there,you want to change your friendship in to a relationship,but he wants it to keep it as friends,maybe because you feel more comfortable with friends.
But if you really think that you can't take it any more then you would hve to tell him in someway about how you feel and that he should just tell you what bothers him about this whole thing.I can't say much coz every situation is different and so is every person.
But i would like you to relax and think about it from the start with a cool mind and just don't push yourself too hard.This will cause you more pain,and yes a lot of dark circles,so take a deep breath and please takecare.
If he doesn't think about you in that way then you should be happy with his freindship,coz friends are far more precious.and they are always there when you need them,have faith in God,you self and just let it go.
takecare okay.
2007-01-27 12:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would let it go. "It" is either there for both of you, or it's not. It is never a good idea to try to force it. If he doesn't feel that way about you, respect his feelings. I know its hard and difficult to understand, but eventually you will get over him and life will go on. Put yourself in the opposite situation. Would like to be talked into liking someone or forced into it? Not at all. And I'd bet he wouldn't either. A good friend is worth keeping. Good luck. I hope I offered some insight.
2007-01-27 12:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Havoc68W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay good friends and don't rush a relationship. Friends can turn out to be the best relationship, who knows it might lead to other things.
2007-01-27 13:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by russell6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take one aspirin and go to another site.
2007-01-27 15:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kerilyn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he once friendship only
2007-01-27 12:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by r1114@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋