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2007-01-27 04:05:50 · 23 answers · asked by Cutefllwr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Looks fade and even if a guy is initially attracted to a person because of how they look this doesn't last forever. A personality, sense of humour, intelligence, caring, these are all far more important that what a women looks like and you will meet someone who thinks that you are absolutely beautiful for what you are. Don't compare yourself with others you are exactly how God wants you to look and remember God made each of us in her image so that makes everyone of us beautiful. Stop being hard on yourself and start looking at the positive parts of you being. Concentrate on what you do well not on looks they don't last. Trust me I know I have seen girls and guys rely for so long on their looks and once they fade they have never bothered to develop any type of personality and they end up alone and sad.
2007-01-27 04:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesent got the looks, he notices if she can spell a coherent sentence. Or maybe if she ever gets off the computer long enough to pay attention to another guy.
This isn't the movie, "The Ring." A guy isn't going to come oozing out of your computer screen at you.
Try working out and get rid of the flab. How about gain a personality. How about an interest in a hobby? These are all things us humans look for. Good Luck.
2007-01-27 12:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you're going to find this dumb, but it's really what's in your heart that counts. My wife is nothing special to most, but I love her more than anything in the world because of who she is.
The problem is showing what's inside of you.
I guess one way is to socialize with people and take it slow with guys that you are interested in. Let them see who you really are and maybe they will see the real you. It's always a real challenge trying to find a special person. The most important thing is to never give up and never settle for a bad person.
One other thing I can suggest, and please don't freak out when you hear the title of this books is The Satanic Witch by Anton Levay". It is not about Satan or witchcraft. It is a book about personalities and how women can use there powers of seduction and charm to get the man they want. It is not for beautiful women, but instead for all woman. It even talks about how you can charm men if you feel that you are ugly. If not for any other reason, it is an interesting book to read.
2007-01-27 12:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't matter as much as we think it does. It helps in the initial attraction.
Anyway guys like girls that have a good personality. Just be urself and value urself. Never let others put u down because of ur looks.
The right guy will fall for ur inner self. Till then enjoy making friends.
2007-01-27 12:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by hihello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In those cases, he'll like you because of your outgoing personality. That and if he knows the real you. But isn't that what it's supposed to be about? Looks aren't as important as people think they are. There is someone for everyone out there. So be patient and don't try so hard to get a guy to like you....if he likes you, then good...if he doesn't...screw him, you'll find him, honey....trust me!
2007-01-27 12:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by Emerald 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good personality, sweetness, being caring, willingness to be open in a relationship, honesty, taking chances, not being conceited, listening, being non-judgmental, flattering the guy.
I am short, fat, and old (54) but could have any number of relationships because of the above reasons.
2007-01-27 12:12:13 · answer #6 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ppl don't have the looks, they need to focus on what they do have:
*a kicking body (take up weight lifting and swimming to work on toning that body)
*work on a fantastic personality. Everyone appreciates and is drawn to a wonderful character.
Best of luck...
2007-01-27 12:10:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A really decent guy would know that looks are skin deep but a person that has a fun personality, and is genuinely genuine never ages!!
2007-01-27 12:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by sicilyuk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys don't go for the looks sometimes they like girls because of their intellectual conversations or maybe bcuz they bring joy and happiness to a guy and they make us feel safe and secure about ourselves
2007-01-27 12:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by jossu_candelario 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be rude, but if she has the potential to "put out", and he sees an opportunity then he'd be stupid not to take it. Your body is your temple. I know it sounds simple enough, but if you don't hold yourself to a higher standard, then you're an easy mark and men know that. Especially the ones who really aren't about crap, on the inside.
2007-01-27 12:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋