Should I let my ex drive me to the airport when I leave?

Question

Guys, this is such a simple question Im just struggling a bit... my ex and i broke up last CHristmas and Im leaving to work in another country and I'll be back after a year. He promised he'll take me to the airport and this means a lot to us but now Im having 2nd thoughts about it. Im not sure if I want him to be there when I leave. Subconsciously its like telling myself he will also be there when I come back-- which may not be the case... but part of me wants him to be there... but im not even sure if we are friends now.. well at least for me... I somehow want to make him think I can live without him by not telling him when Im leaving... but I might hurt him for not doing so... but i somehow wonder if he'd even feel hurt... he broke up with me! He did remind me about it a couple of days ago but he also said he'll try his best because work might get in the way but there shouldnt be a problem ?)... Please talk some sense to me... I dunno what to feel anymore..

Answer 1

ABSOLUTELY NOT. Why, because, he already dropped a small hint that work might get in the way. It's a very small hint i know, but you should use that as a GOOD reason not to let him drive you to the airport.

You are clinging to him, and he has dumped you remember. You need to get a cab to take you to the airport, if he contacts you after you have gone, then respond, but i sure wouldn't waste my time trying to get him back. It's time to move on it's been over a month already.

Answer 2

Just get him to drive to the airport, drop you off and go - he has done the kind thing, and you don't have to go through the long goodbyes associated with a relationship... REmember to thank him for the lift,a nd leave it like that.
Have fun and good luck

Answer 3

If u asking all this long drama question; then maybe u should get someone else to drop u off and not rely on him..

Answer 4

yes u should