Why must they be so freakin' cruel? You tell them you love them and they don't give a damn.
2007-01-27 03:59:43 · 20 answers · asked by Sexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hate girls like that! its so mean. i just wanna slap all my friends that do that! some of them are so mean to guys and like it makes me so mad! and some like go meet up w/ guys then ditch them. UGHHHHH I CANT STAND THAT!
you just gotta find the right girl, whos not gunna do that. girls can be bitches!
2007-01-27 04:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Now, Now were not all evil. Some girls have an *** hole complex. They are so used to being treated badly. So when a great guy comes around and treats them good... we don't know how to act. So that can turn into freaking out and leaving. I'm sorry.. but trust me were not all bad. Some of us have the same problem you have... lifes rough
2007-01-27 04:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by faith16_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not exactly, i used to be a sweet naive girl a long time ago, but a cold-hearted man taught me to raise my defenses, which is what you might be mistaking for cold heart. There's a lot of us who have been hurt and have a really hard time opening up and letting the real "me" be shown. You cannot generalize every woman by a single experience.
2007-01-27 04:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by dianabarff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like my ex who claims all he wants is a girl who can love him and treat him like he would treat her, and moans about how he's been hurt, and shat on and how women generally are just ****, and how his married friends don't deserve to be married because they don't treat their women right. And then he goes ahead and treats women like they're nothing so he doesn't get hurt again and wonders why they get annoyed and leave him.
Some people are nice, some people aren't nice - don't tar everyone with the same brush - you'll just end up hurting yourself. Just because one girl doesn't return your affections doesn't mean no girl will.
2007-01-27 04:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're afraid. sometimes when they get into a relationship they just don't want to ge too attached or feel too obligated to someone. what if you broke someone's heart when you said you loved them. wouldn't you be hurting someone's feelings then. saying "i love you" are big words and they're not easy to accept. if your girlfriend doesn't give a damn as in she doesn't care what you say, then maybe she's just childish, or doesn't understand.
2007-01-27 04:12:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nocturne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me being a girl i think i would say that girls arent really sure if your telling the truth and playing a stupid trick on them. some girls arent always sure of themselves so they just try to say somthing else. but not all girls are really mean. some find it hard. and guys are usually the cold hearted ones.
2007-01-27 04:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us are like that .. But if she doesn't feel the same way.. would u rather have her tell you the truth and let you hurt now... or lie.. and waste all the time being in a fake relationship...
2007-01-27 04:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nikkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally - well i got up a wall around me (not litterly) and guys have a hard time getting over it. i dont think that i am cruel - just honest. the way i look at it is guys wannna move way to fast - girls like me well we wanna take things slow - can he break down my wall and really get to know me?
2007-01-27 04:03:50 · answer #8 · answered by bananananana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not being cold hearted, that is being honest. You can't MAKE someone have feelings for you that they don't have. Just because YOU love someone doesn't mean that they HAVE to love you back. Maybe YOU need to be more discretionary in who you give your love to.
2007-01-27 04:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that means you need to find someone else that will appreciate you. All women are not like that maybe in mature girls are tho
2007-01-27 04:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, we give a damn, we just don't know if we should tell you guys that we love you.
2007-01-27 04:02:44 · answer #11 · answered by odd_person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋