I like a guy that don't know i exsist. he is nice and he likes my BFF. I don't want t hurt her feelings and really think he is my type. but every time i try to talk to him i start to come up with words i don't know of.... and now he is going out with soeone and i am afraid to tell him the way i feel bout him....
PLZ >WHATDO I DO?????
2007-01-27 03:42:08 · 13 answers · asked by tara b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get a high self esteem and tell him. Forget about your bff and the chick she is going about . This is about him and you. At least you tried
2007-01-27 03:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by cynnie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
(My Daughter's name is Tara) Bring it back to where it's suppose to be. We've taken "The Heart" out of falling in Love. And that's where the real happiness comes from. If you're Heart, is really in it? Listen, once and awhile.It'll tell you EXACTLY what to say and do. If your Heart is talking to his? Then, you'll know that it's the right thing to do. Don't put the Cart before the Horse. It sounds, old fashion. But it can save your Happiness, in the long run. Try it!
2007-01-27 11:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think about this person everyday that you can't get him out of your head? if you do your definetly love sick. you should be his friend first because you don't want him hating you for interferring his relationship. if you become good friends then you have two choices, one you can stay friends, two you could be something more if he finds something he really likes about. i mean you'll have to talk to him sometime. if you choose neither then if i were you i'd just tell him how i feel because friendship doesn't always evolve into a relationship with someone. Good luck!
2007-01-27 11:58:40 · answer #3 · answered by Nocturne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think ur in love i just think u just really like him but before u go around thinking u love him u need to get to know him better cause he may not be what u expected and u have consider ur friends feelings and whether he feels the same way about u
2007-01-27 11:49:32 · answer #4 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in this day in age, there is a thin line between love & lust!! LUST is the animal desire to feel a yearning, physically, and sexually toward someone, which can be aquired instantly, its like love at first sight, puppy-love,infactuation, everytime you see him you all gooey inside right?? well not to bust your bubble, but more likely your just
infatuated, because LOVE comes by being
with this person, and them with you, getting to know eachother, and having intimate times togather, thats why we call it FALLING IN LOVE , "BUT" just like everything else in life if you want something
you gots to go out and get it!!! yeah he might have a girlfriend ,but its all up to you to make him notice you . whatever you do dont be shy, tell him how you feel, get him alone and let him know that you want to get with his program!!! its simple, here ill give you the words to say, and you practice them and when you got him alone, look him in the eye and say, " HEY LOOK, NOW I KNOW YOU HAVE A GIRL FRIEND AND ALL AND IM NOT TRYING TO START ANYTHING (BUT) I HAVE 2 LET YOU KNOW A LITTLE SOMETHIN, SOMETHIN, AND THAT IS THAT IM DIGGIN ON YOU BIG TIME AND I WANT
TO GET WITH YOU!! IF YEAH THATS COOL, IF NOT THATS COOL TOO!! IM JUST LETTING YOU KNOW!! SOOOO,
NOW IT YOUR MOVE, THATS IF YOU WANT TO GET WITH THIS"!!!! Then give him the sexiest look you got and walk away, and dont look back, and dont go looking for him, just be patient, ignore him,act like he dont even exist, and sooner or later he'll be doing everything he possibly can to ditch his girl, to get a chance to talk to you again!! Then youll have him caught, hook, line, and sinker!!!!
then you can do what you want with him,
make him yours or just PIMP him out!! lol
good look..... lover
2007-01-27 12:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by Gangsta Of Luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else he has a girlfriend... Would you like it if someone came between you and someone you were going steady with? Treat others the way you want to be treated, "word for thought".
2007-01-27 11:46:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you haven't fallen love don't worry.you have fallen into attraction and that feels so good it must be love right?do nothing.just continue to speak to him and do nothing to interfere with his present relationship.It's cool to be interested in someone,but it's better when that someone notices you and asks you out.Never force yourself on a man,if he's not blind,he sees you.
2007-01-27 11:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are concerned about hurting somebody really muchly, then its probly love.
even when you would go without things you need like food jus to keep them happy and not hurt.
2007-01-27 11:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not a feel to discribe....it is something u willtouch in your heart...in addition to u may not sleep thinking in that one who stole ur spirit
2007-01-27 11:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't delay already its too late. Otherwise you will have to repent when he will start loving someone else.
2007-01-27 11:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋