Me and my ex have been hanging out the last two weeks pretty heavily. About an hour a day after school just riding around. Well anyway last night after she got home from shopping w/ my mom we went out to eat and went to a few stores she wanted to go to. After this we went back to her house to watch a movie/tv till about 12. This morning i realized I liked this girl and told her that I did threw AIM. I then said I know you probably dont feel the same way as of now but can we just be friends and go from there. She said yes. She was completely shocked and I dont think in a way I wanted her to be, did I do the right thing? What can I do now? Thanks
2007-01-27 03:41:06 · 11 answers · asked by BobbyD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Way to spell Romeo, firefox.
2007-01-27 03:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you did the right thing .. if your going to be friends or anything else for that matter you have to be honest she may have been shocked that you feel that way cause you might not have showed it when your around her but if she hangs out with you ALL the time like you say then she must feel something to the whole boyfriend girlfriend effect because if she didnt she would probably just hang with her other friends that are girls so just go with the flow and keep spending time with her and see how she reacts to different things you say or do just flirt a litttle and have fun .. and i hope everything works out for you two! =)
2007-01-27 03:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop living in the past. The Past has Passed. You had a life together, and I am not certain your feelings are based on anything but nostalgia.
If she was romantically interested in you, she'd let you know, and I don't see how you can have "feelings" for somebody who doesn't have "feelings" for you. It isn't realy;it's a mirage, a ghost. Let the ghosts go. Get out there and live your life, do things, find somebody who's interested in you, and stop paying attention to your own ego and interest level--learn to pay attention to the interest level and actions of the women you are with.
2007-01-27 03:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg that is so sad.. but i think the truth is better than he giving you hope when there might not be.... sometimes it is better to find out right away than ruin a friendship because you try again and it doesnt work out... i believe a friendship is much more important... that does last forever.. a relationship can be broken anytime... for any little reason, unlike a friendship.
2007-01-27 03:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a crap-sandwich in the making buddy, and you are the crap.
You will get tired of this back and forth mind-*** eventually, and move on. Don't punish yourself, find a new fresh fish, not a smelly old recycled one.
2007-01-27 03:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. you told her how you felt. she sounds like she isn't interested. you have to respect that. and you have to give her props for still wanting to be friends and isn't running away. that is a true friend, keep her around and who knows maybe down the line something will change and she will like you again.
2007-01-27 03:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing, by saying lets be friends, this way you will be able to spend time with her, and them your feelings will take over, smart move!
2007-01-27 03:47:06 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just screwed yourself over. Good going Romio.
2007-01-27 03:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing...Now see if your ex want you back if so go for it.
2007-01-27 03:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this girl...go for it...ask her if she has the same feelings for you. If you to do liek eachother then go out and ask her.
2007-01-27 04:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by SGx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋