how do i know whether i like the person or love the person?...i do like two man but whom do i love?...please help me out to solve this problem so that it wont drag anymore and at the same time it wont hurt anybody...thank u
2007-01-27 03:37:48 · 16 answers · asked by young_chemist 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
baby girl, right now , you just like both. love will develop later. you'll feel it. you, yourself will find out. imagine life without one of them, how would you feel? do the same for the other guy. if you don't feel any different, then you don't have the love feeling yet.
2007-01-27 03:43:15 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which of the people do you look forward to here from or see. Remember this, Look at the inner person, because after your with the person the outer shell doesn't look the same and now all you have left is the man inside the shell. To many people start out thinking it's an appearance thing or for lack of better words a trophy to show off. Trust me that trophy can't always keep the heart going pitta patter or googol gaga.
2007-01-27 11:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by russell c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are going the wrong way of trying to find love being with two different guys at the same time. The only person you will hurt in the end is yourself. The tables always turn on you when you are in the wrong. From my experience, I encountered the same problem. I wasn't sure who to pick. One of them was exciting to be around, but not as careing as the other one. I ended up with the exciting one, but always wondered if she was doing the same as i had done while i was seeing the two. I always wondered what could have happened if i would have stayed with the girl who was less outgoing but more careing. Ask yourself who you would rather end up with?
2007-01-27 11:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you who you love and who you like. It's something you have to decide on your own, nobody can tell you who's the one for you, it's just not the way things work. When you really love someone you will be able to tell so maybe you should wait a little. Don't think about it too much and the answer will come to you. It's not who you can live with but who you can't live without. Good luck.
2007-01-27 11:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mystic-scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick one man and dump the other in your mind. If that makes you unhappy just a little bit, you picked the wrong one.
I say, if you aren't sure you love someone, you probably don't.
I thought I would be miserable after my g/f and I broke up after a long relationship, but guess what? I didn't care then, and I don't miss her one bit now. I didn't really love her.......
2007-01-27 11:44:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To whom you want to see again & again. For whom your heart starts beating & who respects your feelings. Try to love only one person in your life only then you can come across true love.
2007-01-27 11:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by P S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a problem you are going to have to figure out for yourself.Someone is going to get hurt reguardless now that there are 2 people you like.So you will have to listen to your heart it is going to tell you who you really Love.Good Luck
2007-01-27 11:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love either one of them. Trust me, you don't.
When you really love someone, you know it. You don't have to question it, because you really know it. You aren't doing that with either one of these guys.
Tell them both that you're not ready yet to get serious with anyone. Yes, it will hurt them, but it will hurt them less than stringing them along would.
2007-01-27 11:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...you dont love eaither of them cause you wouldnt be havening this problem but hang out with both of then at different times see who you like best just date no relationship yet and tell them that and then which ever1 you like better go with him!and the other boy just let him no you did really connect with him and your sry! good luck (it worked 4 my best friend)
2007-01-27 11:45:04 · answer #9 · answered by juggalette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did u get in this in the first place.u need to take a break from both of them and sit and think to yourself which one makes u feel more comfortable,who makes ur heart skip a beat,and who makes u laugh.u have to do it quick because u dont just owe it to yourself u owe it to them too
2007-01-27 11:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋