my best friend broke up with this guy a month or two ago and is totally over him and likes someone else.
2007-01-27 03:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by dumbblonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no u never date ur friends ex boyfriend thats wrong
2007-01-27 03:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an "unspoken rule" about dating ex's. I would talk to you friend before you do anything. If you jump in and start dating the ex she could get angry regardless of whether or not shes over him. Girls can be catty... we want what we can't have. Its a very sensitive subject so I would watch out.
I speak from experience. I had a friend go out with my ex... theres always that thought of "how long has that been going on". As dumb as it sounds.. I felt betrayed by both of them (Then again I as much younger and things like that were Earth shattering).
I have also taken a friends ex.... but the never really dated and he ended it with her cause he had feelings for someone else...me. I don't regret it cause i'm still with him and hes been the world to me. So if I would have passed it by cause of my friend (That I don't even talk to anymore) my whole life would be so different.
So it can go either way... just think about it really hard. If you really care for him and its real that I would go for it after talking to your friend.
Good luck
2007-01-27 11:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by faith16_2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that can lead to bad feeling with your friend, even if she's done with him. I'm sure your friendship means more than this guy. There's plenty more out there. Besides, she problably has some insight into why NOT to date him. Like why she broke up with him, his issues or whatever.
2007-01-27 11:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by dgurlsmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how she would feel about it first. It probably would not be a good idea though. She may thing she can handle it, but then once she sees you too together, bad news. Save your friendship, look for another guy.
2007-01-27 11:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is like 6 billion people on the planet why do people keep their realationships in such a small circle.
you have your choice of so many guys, lady, this RUINS friendships, it's never worth it, even if she says it 's cool
2007-01-27 11:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by takethepain2579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just dont do that,have some respect.Great friendships have been lost over stuff like this,whats more important?your best friend or the other.
2007-01-27 11:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your best friend if she minds if you talk to him. sometimes friends have a problem with it. If her friendship means a lot to you, then with her blessings, I guess then you can proceed to make a move on him.
2007-01-27 11:40:52 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on whether or not you care to have a best friend. I say: "Lots of fish in da sea!" Cast your net ELSEWHERE!
2007-01-27 11:38:56 · answer #8 · answered by "Corey" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd suggest no. It's going to be weird if you ended up hanging up with both of them.
2007-01-27 11:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure go ahead...if ur ready risk ur relationship with ur best frnd...! but this is something i wudnt do...coz ma best frnd is lyk more important to me....so u knw...its all upto ya!
2007-01-27 11:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by sophsmaat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋