This guy and I decided to be friends after he realized I was not experienced. So, I figure I will not call him all the time since we are just friends and he has a life. I call him a week later and he is really mean to me. He asks me if I ever kissed somebody below the belt and then he tries to get me to have phone sex by asking how I like my breast to be touched. I remained calm even though I wanted just tell him off. He went on to asking me if my parents were strict and did I have to wear dresses. Also, if I ever have "dreams" and I told him yes I am human.Then he told me I was a robot and I asked him why he thought that and he said I did not like to be touched. The last time we were together he kissed me twice on the face and I told him to stop b/c I did not know much about him. He never talks about himself. I told him from the beginning if he wanted sex I would disappoint him. I know he probably is sexually frustrated but it does not give him a right to be rude. Thanks.
2007-01-27 03:32:30 · 6 answers · asked by aisha r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone has great answers. Ireally appreciate it.
2007-01-27 03:43:37 · update #1
Drop this guy, and run. He is a sicko. And besides, who knows what he's done with other people...
2007-01-27 03:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by flying_centaur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like that aren't even worth your time. I think every girl has been put in an awkward situation like that and you have to know to just walk away from it. As for your overall question why did he have to be such a jerk? There are a lot of guys that think just from what they see on TV and everything that it's there job to be forward and such with girls. It's the way the society is running now a day and it's really not fair to girls or all of the guys out there that are really nice and just being labeled based on the jerks. You just have to remember that there are some nice guys out there and even though they may be harder to find, at least it will be worth it when you find him. :) Good luck.
2007-01-27 11:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mystic-scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are just like that its in their nature .. especially with sex .. thats what they all think about alot of the time and everyone knows that .. but apparently he does not care about your opinion or respect you if hes talking to you and treating you like that .. if it was me i would choose not to even be friends he sounds kind of pushy and it would scare me off a little just be civil and talk nice to him so maybe he will back off a little because no one should be pushed into anything especially things like that
2007-01-27 11:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you told us. tell him that you're not ready for that because you don't know much about him and that it's rude to call you a robot, and that if might act like one becuase you're not ready with him yet.
2007-01-27 11:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by .Frequently♥Dazzled. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a total jerk....he was not being a jerk, he is a jerk. You should just avoid this guy and let him go....
2007-01-27 11:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop him. he sounds like a jerk and a total pervert. and obviously his hormones are all eratic.
slap him upside the head!!
..jk you don't really have to do that.
2007-01-27 11:48:41 · answer #6 · answered by ohmercymercyme! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋