Boy do I have a way of picking them. My bf wants me to take out a loan of about 10,000 so he can open up a money market account. Now I dont think he think I am that stupid. I have good credit for a reason.............i know how to manage my money and i know my limit. I may help you with money for a metrocard, food, but that does it. But I would like to know what do you think. IHe is turning me off and I am going to leave him but want him to pay all he owe without knowing I will leave. Can you help please.Thank you
2007-01-27 03:16:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Credit
On top of that his reason for the x- box is so it can occupy his time for when I am nto around. Then he try to make me understnad its just like when I have nothing to do at hom I go on my computer..........thats right I go on MY computer when I am bored and can't see him. But he failed to realize that that is MY computer that I bought with MY money with NO ONES help. Yeah I did it on credit but that took me 6 months to pay of that 1000 comp and that was with alittle minimum wage job also.
He got alittle upset when I said that and said that he just want me to do this one thing and thats all. That he know how he gets when he do something with no ones help he may not need there help and think why he with them. Well I feel bring it on it may be the best thing he could have done for me
2007-01-27 12:28:23 · update #1
girl why you do that much for him you wasn't even married to him
2007-01-27 03:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by steve 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For starters money market accounts "begin" at $2.000, and why would anyone take out a loan that will charge you much more in interest than a money market would pay in returns. If he can't take out his own loan he's baggage to begin with and if he owes YOU money then file a claim against him in small claims court.
I am also inclined to agree with the person who suggested that you look into your own behavior pattern when selecting a significant other. Good Luck
2007-01-27 04:20:23 · answer #2 · answered by Toni F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is unable to get his own loan what makes him think that he can manage a money market? That's the basic thing even if he had the best of intentions.
You are not married. His debts are his so no worries about leaving him. And since you are not married he could get away scott free with your money. Just get rid of him.
2007-01-27 03:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont DO IT the market can change daily and he could loose all plus more if he is on margin I dont know how well he knows the market but remeber the market givieth and the market taketh and with no mercy And it laughs all the way to the bank. Hope this helps a little good luck
2007-01-27 03:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by muss51 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are better off getting away from this guy now and taking the loss on what you've already given him. He's just going to keep looking for ways to get money from you, not to pay you back.
2007-01-27 05:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by pag2809 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that gold digging fool and let him clean up his own financial mess he made. That will only be his problem, not yours. And let that be a lesson to him for using you for your money. He's nothing but a sorry excuse of a man, I tell you! You are a beautiful and intelligent woman when it comes to managing your finances, and you did a good job of it. Consider yourself helped.
2007-01-27 04:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by brian 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he using you, or are you encouraging his dependence on you?
I agree w/the fellow who suggested getting out quickly. My next step, if I were you, is to seek professional help to find out why this is a relationship pattern for you. You sound intelligent and savvy, so invest some time in yourself and set the way for you to have happier relationships in the future.
Good Luck!
2007-01-27 03:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Croa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a user and a very stupid one. You are supposed to take out the loan and he gets the interest on it? I don't think so.
Tell him you aren't going to loan him money when he hasn't paid you back what he owes you. When he pays you back, drop his @$$.
2007-01-27 06:48:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh yea he is using you and you should just write off your losses and leave now before he counties to suck you dry, it always starts small. He has some nerve. If he was mine when i finished cussing him out he would be the one leaving!
2007-01-27 03:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by tall_slimm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a reasonably intelligent woman. You know what to do. Kick this turd to the curb. Don't give him anything more and consider your losses to date as a learning experience.
2007-01-27 03:25:30 · answer #10 · answered by Bostonian In MO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The chances of you getting back any of the money he owes you is very slim. cut your losses and leave as soon as possible, before he takes you for any more. good luck.
2007-01-27 03:24:51 · answer #11 · answered by Curious George 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋