We haven't been seeing each other for very long, but he has told me that he is really into me, but for me there is no 'spark'. He is a nice man, and i enjoy spending time with him, but thats as far as it goes for me. How do i end it without hurting his feelings, and hopefully we can still be friends?
2007-01-27 02:47:21 · 14 answers · asked by ? 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Explain the situation... Say you like him but just as mates...
And still want to see him.
Also helping them find new girls also helps and maybe recruit his mates to take him on a pulling weekend or to lap dance bars and help him get over you also would help and then you can join in on helping him chat to girls who have nice boobies etc.
Go with him to places with we t shirt competions and make sure he knows its ok for him to get off with other girls
2007-01-27 04:24:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say that you need to take a break from each other and see other people. If you find someone you love and you have that 'spark' it wasn't true love, but if you find no one else you love you will appreciate him a lot more and realise you have made a terrible mistake.
Hope i could help!
And remember make sure this is what you want because if it isn't it won't just be you that gets hurt.
2007-01-27 11:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be easier said than done but really you should just tell him exactly what you have told us. Honesty is the best policy and I think he will respect you for being so truthful with him and it says alot for you as a person to not lead it along and then end up hurting him. I am sure that he will be disappointed but your still offering friendship so that will leave the ball in his court, he may take a bit time to get over you turning him down but once he gets used to it am sure it be ok. good luck
2007-01-27 12:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk logically over dinner, that you think he's a special person and you have a great time with him, but that "spark" is lacking. He could very well try to reason back with you saying that he can 'work' on that, but bring him down from that fantasy and explain it's not possible.
2007-01-27 10:56:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you have told us and say you would like to remain friends. You never know the closeness might eventually even start sparks!
2007-01-27 10:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by mistickle17 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you really like him, and respect him also, and because you respect/like him you don't want to lead him on, and end up hurting him so, for now you're just not ready to commit.
You value his freindship and would love for him to stay around and be your freind.
Good luck
2007-01-27 10:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Coley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt worry too much if he seems mature and open minded. Just tell him you want to be a friend ..
2007-01-27 10:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the "it's not you, it's me" speech. Tell him you have personal issues to work on before you're ready to commit to a relationship.
2007-01-27 10:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him exactly what you have just said,he will be hurt, no doubt,but its unlikely you will be able to be just friends.
2007-01-27 10:55:50 · answer #9 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't feel the same but you really do, genuinely, like spending time with him, it sound like he is really nice.
2007-01-27 10:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋