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Hey guys in my earlier question about my girl, I also wanted to something else to add.. when she was first contemplating "taking some time for ourselves" I started crying a little bit and she then said "is this a good idea, do you think we should take a break?" and we didn't and we were fine. Well I started to feel a little weird, like something wasn't right. For the next few hours we didn't really talk, and I told her I felt weird. I asked her if we were together and she said "I don't know" over and over. I asked her, "is it another guy?" and she said no, she only is mostly with me, and that's true, i would of known somehow. anyway, i asked her if she wanted to go see a movie and she said "yes" and I asked her "will you know how you feel by tomorrow?" and she said no, in a few days. What does this mean??? Also, she met a new girl and I guess she wanted to hang out with her tonight, but she said she would see a movie with me. Should I call her, or let her call me? Whats all this mean?

Answer 1

Sounds like shes getting fed up on your relationship and wants to put an end to it. Sorry you don't wanna hear that, but thats the way it sounds! She doesn't seem to be as involved in this as you are. Let her call you.

Answer 2

Your reading in between the lines too much. Give her some space, U need it too. The worst thing U can do is smother her at this time. People change, in relationships they either grow together or apart. To me this means to give all the space & time she needs. I would not call her, act like it doesn't bother U. Trust me when I say when 1 door closes another one opens up. Let time take it's course. Start looking for another honey. What happens is going to happen. Ur young, this is part of growing up. I hope I helped or gave U something to think about.