She's moving, she's changing, she's so unpredictable, she's innocent, she attracts boys.
All of this gives me insecurity, I have tasted it before and I don't want to taste it again. How should I handle it. Seeking advice from people who have experience.
Many thanks.
2007-01-27 02:11:13 · 3 answers · asked by umcris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women change their minds as often as the sun rises. You have to accept things as they R. I suggest you get secure & confident in your self. Chicks want a guy that takes charge & know what they want (I'm not talking about from the female either ) You need to back off some to give her space she wants. Look for another squeeze. If she's moving R U still going to see her. Dude get on with your life & don't let this chick mess up Ur head. If it was meant to be it will. Till then move one. Hope this helped or gave U something to think about.
2007-01-27 08:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Blues Man 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is just not ready to settle down but you are. That's a tough one, all right.
First, make sure it's not a problem of YOURS. I mean: are you overreacting because you are too jealous? Honestly, if that is the case, you have no hope of ever having a happy relationship because even if you literally chain her up in a locked house, she will just hate you for that kind of possessiveness.
Second, love is only love if it is free. Love is not something we GET; it's something we GIVE. If you HAVE to HAVE a certain reaction from somone else - that is definitely NOT love; it's control. If you truly love someone, you want what is best for THEM, even if that means her going far away and being with someone else.
Love is not about what is best for ME. Have you ever given anyone a gift, not for a reason like a birthday, but just because you wanted that person to have something? You don't expect or want anything in return - you just give.
Maybe your anxiety is based on the fact that you want the girl to give you something very specific and you are not getting it. People rarely ever do. But if you just give your love away to the world with no expectaion of a return, you WILL be loved back a hundredfold.
2007-01-27 02:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cloud9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a woman , its a woman's prerogative to change her mind whenever she pleases, dont hold your past against her, its not her with the problem its you.
2007-01-27 02:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by sissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋