Things I'm considering
Opinions of others- I just can't afford to do this anymore
Intuition
Doing what G-d wants me to
2007-01-27 01:45:12 · 12 answers · asked by PLENTY! 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Have you been put down a lot in your life? This may cause problems when trying to make choices for yourself. Other than that I would suggest that you believe that you are able to make choices and live with the consequences of these choices. For instance when making a decision write out the pros and cons of that decision and see if you are able to deal with the possible outcomes. If you do this often enough then you will come to see that you are making choice based on being responsible for yourself and not based on other peoples opionion or, what you think may be other peoples thoughts. Focus on yourself and know that you are able to make choices your self.
2007-01-27 02:23:27 · answer #1 · answered by wandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still immature. Anyone over the age of 12 who uses 1/2 to mark their age needs to act more grown-up. Start thinking and acting like an adult, (which you are)and decisions will be easy for you.
2007-01-27 01:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Chris D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 02:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im guessing ... when you we're a child ...your parents never let you decide for your own... now that you grown up... you have no idea how and what your decision should be...
try analyzing and balancing the problem and the solution and then... think about the consequences when you're done with that... then it's time to decide for the right one... don't regret anything that you decide on...
cause it really will make you feel uncomfortable...
2007-01-27 01:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by ChocoCrumble 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This what you do work out a little to build a little self esteem and then start by making smallest decision for yourself and everyday make it a goal to at least conquer 2. FOCUS ON YOURSELF remember it's all about you "YOUR #1"
2007-01-27 02:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by RC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have probably had your parents make decisions for you up until now so it is hard. Parents should let kids make decisions slowly so they can make wise ones as an adult. Just jump in and do it. Make a list of pros and cons of each decision. Then act on it.
2007-01-27 01:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You answered the question yourself - you aren't afraid of making decisions you are afraid of the consequences. Being an adult means accepting responsible for the consequences of your decisions. Make responsible well-thought out decisions and you'll be ok.
2007-01-27 06:04:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sassygirlzmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, the opinions of others should be your last concern in life issues. Consider them, but don't feel bound by them. It's your life. Second, say/type the word "God" full out; He wants your respect and love, but you shouldn't be terrified to type His name. Third, Have you been coddled a lot in life? I know people who have been, and they have similar problems.
2007-01-27 01:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are still holding onto your childhood in half year increments. You are 23 and next, you will turn 24. Time to grow up.
2007-01-27 01:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello!! Friend!! Age should NOT " pressurize" you to make quick decisions which you will later REGRET!!! Especially decisions which are very important that concern your future. You did not mention what decisions make you feel uncomfortable?? Is it marriage?? Career?? Relationships?? You are not clear from your question-- what condition you are now in?? Are you now suffering emotionally?? Do you have a good friend to share what you are going tru?? Talk to someone you can trust!! Share with her your problems.It is better for a female to talk her problem out with another female!! Likewise, a male needs another male to talk to!!By this way, TRUST and CONFIDENT can be built up. You have the confident to turn to God!! THAT IS GOOD!! KEEP IT UP!! TRUSTING IN GOD IN EVERYTHING YOU DO IS THE RIGHT DIRECTION TO GO!! SURRENDER ALL YOUR FEAR TO GOD !! Remember GOD LOVES YOU!! He will guide you if only you allow HIM!! You are SO WORTHY IN THE EYES OF GOD AND GOD ACCEPTS YOU AS HIS DAUGHTER AND LOVES YOU TREMENDOUSLY!!! NEVER DOUBT IN HIM!!! BE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF AND BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!! Yes,sometime-- opinions of others can be so stressful and confusing. ARE YOU WILLING to trust in yourself in making decisions?? Yes, do not be afraid to make mistakes--big or small!! BECAUSE THAT IS HOW WE ALL LEARNT!!! NOBODY IS PERFECT!!! So, do little things at a time until you gain confident in yourself to do bigger things in life. Avoid negative people--people who loves to thumb you down,insulted you, people who said you are nothing!! AVOID THEM TOTALLY!!Seek to be in the company of positive people who like to encourage you to be a BETTER PERSON!!! I hope you will find the courage TO TRUST YOURSELF AGAIN AND STAND UP FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN!! THIS IS WHAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT!! BELIEVING IN YOURSELF AND MAKE A GO FOR IT!! Best of luck in your self discovery!!
2007-01-27 02:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋