they both great i like bith of them but dont love either of them but i know that if they both decided to stop lobing me i would be furious....whats wrong with me...i dont want them but i dont want them to lose interest...sound really bad dont i....
2007-01-27 01:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me guess. You like their company, but you're starting to get confused because you really enjoy them being around but not in a way to be commited in a relationship or rather... getting married... having built up burdens to come in future that you arent sure about or dont want to solve together. Theres nothing wrong with you, you are just going through another stage of life. The reason why you dont want them to lose interest is because you enjoy the feeling of them treating you special in a way, the way you feel comfy of. You're most proberbly afraid that once you give them a head-on answer, they might just change the way they treat you now, in turn losing everything you cherish about in presence. My advice is, chill. you're getting confused. give yourself sometime to think is marriage even the concern you should be thinking about in your current age? Or are you ready, just that they arent the suitable candidate. If you're afraid to lose them, always tell them you enjoy their company so that even if one day they know they cant marry you, both of you all can be close friends still... because the friendship-courtship stage foundation is strong, a higher possibility that they will still stick to be around you... :) ... be calm. listen to your heart. i hope i've been of some help. cheers.
2007-01-27 01:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Devoiex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are really loving the attention!
I would say dont marry either of them bcuz as u say u dont love either of them, and if u did then tomorrow when somebody else gives u 'attention which makes u feel great', u will start flirting with them and this would be unfair to ur husband
2007-01-27 09:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lara D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to marry either of them, but still have them as friends for dating that is alright. If you don't love someone enough, don't marry. Love is what makes a relationship and marriage successful. Along with trust, a shoulder to lean on, and so on. If neither of these guys have what you want, marrying them would be something you might wish you didn't do. And then it's too late.
2007-01-27 09:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Yafooey! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nether of them,
You have the answer to that, you said “I LIKE them but don’t love”
You could marry them but soon I bet you’ll find them boring and end up divorcing with kids, plus those two guys.. I think they just don’t get it.
The reason you would be furious is (I THINK) that you’re insecure in a way, some woman has to have feelings need of validation and approval but that a just my option, I really think you should move on and find someone has both in common with you.
If they are so in love with you.. Then they deserves someone who will love him the same way.. and you don't feel that way.. So do them a favor and set them free to find someone who will love him the way He needs to be loved.
2007-01-27 09:39:41 · answer #4 · answered by Cisco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like the attention. Admit it, and you'll be better off. You enjoy that there are two very nice men who both want you. However, the problem here is, you don't love either of them.
The best thing to do here would be to break it off with both of them -- dragging them along and making them believe they are what you are looking for is just cruel.
2007-01-27 09:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, tricky. Sounds like you shouldn't marry either of them. If you're lonely, I don't think there's anything wrong with spending time with both of them but don't lead them on, and don't just marry either one of them becasue they want it so bad.
If I were you I would save my love for someone who comes along and knocks you off your feet
good luck
2007-01-27 09:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by glim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them both to slow it down and try dating, to help you decide. you seem to like their attention, so don't entirely cut them off, take a weekend at the beach or something, go somewhere w/o them and see how you feel.
2007-01-27 09:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Bosquet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are juzz feeling gr8 abt it ....ppl likin u make u feel really important ....but its not playtime anymore .....either chose 1 of dem to marry u or find anotha hottie !!
2007-01-27 09:20:22 · answer #8 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want status symbols you cant cheat on the one your hung up on YOURSELF ur mixing up emotions its great to be wanted but playing people like you are is cruel KARMA'S gona hit u hard some day!!!
2007-01-27 09:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by ohnodanoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes you want them alright ,Both of them infact but that would be outragous would'nt it ? or would it ? go ahead give it ago your only human .But don't be sad :)
2007-01-27 09:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by shelley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋