So there's this chick at work.....?

Question

There is this chick that i used to work with when i was doing another job at the place i work at, I pretty much fell for her right of the bat, she seemed to also, I' d ask her or sh'ed ask me and we'd take our breaks together and all that
Well after like three weeks i was about to like ask her out and she comes out with "well i met this guy at my apartments last week and he asked my for my # but he hasn't called me, What's wrong with him, tell me your a guy??
I said "completely stunned" Well I Don't know, Like an hour later she's all "why aren't you talking, and i'm like Oh nothing, Then i said, Did i say something you didn't like. THen she's like Oh i don't want to talk about it, I tried calling her a bumch later that day but she never answered, I gave up on her, but we talked like we were friends ever since, That was seven months ago, Now once again she seems to be on me, SHe's all telling me about her awful parents and asking about the church i go to and all that stuff, more deta

So anywase yesterday i went and took my break and when i cam eback she says have you taken your break, I said yes, well I'm going to go and get coffee, I know she was going to ask me to with her had i not taken my break, Do you think i ought to give her another chance or do you think she is just leading me on to nowhere again

Answer 1

You're her friend guy. Some girls don't realize that the guys whom they see as 'friends only' may want to be more. If you REALLY like her, you could try to talk about one anothers feelings and where you would like your relationship to be. But if you think that her motives are for those 'other guys' all the time...you may want to forget her. But one perfect test that will help: act as if you have girl problems, and ask her for advice. If she appears any sort of jealous, that means you would definitely be able to take her out on actual dates.

Good luck, one of my best guy friends had this problem- not with me, but with my best friend. I solved the problem by instructing them to do this. It worked, and now they're b/f g/f.

Answer 2

Dude, your her fall back guy snd nothing more. Kinda like an old pair of comfy slippers, except she ain't gonna "wear" you.

Answer 3

you should tell her how you feel and what you were feeling back when she told you this...maybe shell end up telling you the same thing

Answer 4

I don't understand the question....

Answer 5

you should give her another chance cause maybe she likes you now................... good luck!

Answer 6

Sorry, what?