Ok, my ex, I have been ignoring him for weeks. Then yesterday he im's me. He goes I'm sorry, please forgive me for being mean. I was like w/e I don't want to fight with you any longer. So he's like how ya been, I was like good, I have a new bf. He flipped. Oh, I see, that's what the nut kept saying. He broke it off with me, and now acts weird. He goes I had the strongest feelings for you, but I'm like why the hell did you do it. I did nothing wrong, I was commited, andd everything. Then he gets all mad and stuff and I just left. Why does he do this, and say the things he does? Does he not want me to be happy?
2007-01-27 01:01:53 · 12 answers · asked by Chey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do have another bf. But I'm not sure about it either, I mean he's great, but there's somethings I have to work out. I am not going back to my ex, he was mean to me.
2007-01-27 01:11:24 · update #1
He doesn't want YOU but he ALSO doesn't want anyone else to have you. Put some distance between yourself and this loser.
2007-01-27 01:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by TEACHING GODDESS 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He never saw your relationship as 'over'. He thought you two were just having an argument...for a very long time. Either that, or he feels that he can come back into your life whenever HE needs you. This is why he is acting the way he is. And guess what? as long as he's within distance to make contact with you, he'll keep doing this. My sister had the exact same problem, and I've learned all the signs. He's radiating them. The fix? try to sever all contact after trying to explain to him that you're finished. You're not his property, you are a free woman- don't let him try to do whatever he wants.
2007-01-27 01:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he likes the hunt. The cat and mouse game perhaps! Please do yourself justice and move on. Ignore him completely, he will go away. When you answer his IM'S your feeding right in to his dis functional behavior. Ask yourself why did you REALLY answer his IM? Do you really care if he wants you to be happy or not? If so, I think you need to figure out what your still feeling for him.
Good Luck
2007-01-27 01:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by trasista4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds sweet and upset that you have moved on so quickly, if he meant a lot to you then you wouldnt have got a new bf so quick. It makes him feel like he didnt mean much to you, he is hurt. You need to apologise to him and tell him he meant something to you but you decided to move on and you hope he does to as you were not right for each other.
2007-01-27 01:08:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is trying to control you by is words. so dont fall for it. my daughter went thru almost the same thing and she left in the middle of the ight because it was all her fault and he didnnothing wrong but when we wereent around he would make comments and ask questions about her boyfriend and he alos broke it off with her so avoid him. good luck
2007-01-27 01:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably realises what he had lost .he was used to you being there for him and now, when he seis you ignore him, he wants you back. my advice is to go on with ur life and pay attention to ur new bf, not ur ex, who was so insestitive to break up with u just like that
2007-01-27 01:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by santex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PSYCO get restraning order quick Realy he aint right in the head
2007-01-27 01:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by ohnodanoh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not want you but does not want anyone else to have you, I've done the same thing to people, You want to leave them, you want to meet someone else, then you do it and see the other person with someone else and it makes you so mad, messed up mind, relationships - STINK - GAMES GAMES GAMES
2007-01-27 01:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isnt even sure whether u likes u or not ....
try to stay away ....have a kool relationship wid ur new bf if u have 1 !!!
2007-01-27 01:09:09 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go move on gal! why bother somebody who been dumping you coz of his unconcious, and hesitation of the relationship towards you!
2007-01-27 01:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by Renee L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋