Right, you have been wih a girl for a while, she was sleeping guy who she had known for six or seven years. Before she met me, she asked him to leave his girlfriend for her, and he said he will one day. She left him at that and stoped sleeping with him but remained in contact with him as friends, and then we met. Whilst being with me she never cheatd on me but always wondered what could of happened with him. We have since split, now she says she is unsure who she wants. She says she dont fancy him like she does me but has the unanswered question of ~What If with this guy? She asked him again if he would split and he said one day, but he don want to hurt anyone. She is still undecided who really in her heart she wants to be with. I think I love the girl for all she has done. Do I wait for the judgement or tell her to get lost?
2007-01-27 00:56:06 · 14 answers · asked by Revenge 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her go until she can decide - is it fair on you to play second fiddle??
2007-01-27 01:00:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably a Libra or just a person who can't make up her mind. I would lose her since she still wants to be with the other guy. She lacks confidence in herself and you aren't apparently giving it to her. Look for someone else and save yourself the aggravation..I hate wishy washy people like that its just fringe crazy!
2007-01-27 09:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take a step back and just let her make up her mind. Chances are, she may never really know who she wants, and the whole ordeal could open old wounds, so many years down the road.
2007-01-27 09:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by ṼξŋØლǿԱ§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont spend you life waiting for her its not good to do that. Let her go and go and find someone else. Sometimes i think we all have the what if thought but leave it as that just a quick thought.
2007-01-27 09:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tricky one! i know how you feel, had a past experience similar to your own. i moved on and the worry of me being the what iffer soon disappeared, im now in a very happy relationship and i dont have thoughts of the other guy. why wait? its not fair you put your life on hold for the sake of someone elses happiness.
2007-01-29 23:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that girl to GET LOST!!! If you are not good enough for her to lay to rest the dead issues in her life (especialy the ones who dop not even want her), then it will plague you for the rest of your life should you decide to make a fullout committment to her.
2007-01-27 09:02:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be with someone where you are the unambiguous first choice - you are worth more than being an 'option'. Get rid!
2007-01-27 09:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by smoky jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes using you as a fall back if the other man doesnt want her, have more respect for yourself than this, shes always going to carry a torch for this man, you are the one who will end up hurt:-(
2007-01-27 09:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating another girl and see what her reaction is. Why should you wait. Don't go tormenting yourself. Good luck.
2007-01-27 09:16:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have already broke up and u cant have anormal relationship with that hanging over your heads. so my best advice is to split cause it sounds like she is trying to play games with everyone
2007-01-27 09:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by quiksilver23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋