Will I lose my boyfriend to his former crush?
My boyfriend used to work with a girl that he had a crush on. Now years later he called her miles away to work on an internet project together. They will be talking every week trying to get it up and running. She is very far away and has a boyfriend. This seems like it could be a project that could lasts for years as it is website and it is something they both love working on. Other people are involved in this project too but I am worried they might start getting close as him and her will be the main ones in charge. They have things in common where this work is concerned and also like talking about the same things
What do you think? What should I look out for, could a relationship develop between them?
2007-01-27 00:49:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first stop worring as if he loves u truly then even if he meets 100 girls like u even then he will not develop any kind of relation with her which u will not like , and if he does wait for true love... dont worry my friend , one who is made for u will not go anywhere
2007-01-27 00:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by vandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a lot of factors. How strong is your relationship now? Do you often wonder if you can lose him?
This comes down to security. You can't control anyone's actions. He may genuinely be over his crush and if she's in a committed relationship nothing may develop. If you guy starts to change in far as the things he says and does, be careful not to jump to conclusions. He may just be working much harder and be under a lot of stress, in which case, if you start accusing him of cheating he'll resent you.
All in all, best advice is to trust your gut. Intuition is very strong if you chose to listen to it.
2007-01-27 08:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea I don't know if you're interested in what he's doing but why not ask him if you could work on it with him. It'll show you have some interest in what he's doing, of course the draw back is he might think you are only doing this to watch him if he knows you have concerns about this other girl and him.
2007-01-27 09:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by ogrething2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they were both single and free at a previous time and never did anything about it chances are they are just friends and not attracted to each other (she may not like him that way). If he used to have a crush just ask him if he still does and see what he responds with, if he wont look you in the eye - chances are its a yes!
2007-01-27 08:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by Marc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like a completely work/interest related issue. You love him so trust him. Thats the messy thing about relationships - you have to put yourself and your trust on the line! Its a big investment, but if he is worth it then give him that chance.
2007-01-27 08:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by rachie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust its all about trust. if your thinking this way probally u dont trust him. yessssssss ofcourse a relationship will develop but if he truly loves u then he will only let it develop so far its called "friendship". seems to me honestly its you that has the issues but most ppl do when loves concerned i would talk to him calmly about your feelings about her and just listen to him and this convosation should tell you how he is feeling and maybe just maybe he loves you to death and things are just playin in your head dont let jelousy kill your love for him hope i helped take care
2007-01-27 08:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by lovetwosweat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just watch him and be careful. If you feel something is going on you need to express your feelings to him. If hes willing to have a relationship with this girl, and give you the cold shoulder, then hes not worth it.
2007-01-27 08:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u trust him dont worry but if u are worried u dont trust him completely...trying put in ur g string in his office bag .stoke and make a roaring fire in ur love life
2007-01-27 08:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by jeiprakasam a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm well....depends on how ur partner is ..
anyways ...try to make him fall in love with you again and again and divert his mind towards urself.....If he really loves you .he wont fall for d gurl.......dont worry .....true lovers neva break hearts !!!
take care babes .... :)
2007-01-27 08:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♥*~Samantha*~♥ღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be a relationship but it will be work only --- trust him --- if you think he is cheating on you then eventually he will cheat on you --- if you trust him he will not let you down
2007-01-27 09:03:30 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋