2007-01-27 00:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by Elena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should consider the feelings of his wife.
What I mean is u should ask yourself what if u were married to the man u love and suddenly some other girl comes into the equation asking a Q abt what she should do because she has fallen in love with this married man.... How would u feel?
Enough said
2007-01-27 01:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lara D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My only question is is this married man older than you and if you love him then there nothing i can do nor god but you can if he only sees you thursdays and mondays and not anyother days then he is just using you to get the pleaser out of you tht he cant get out of his wife so you should leave it alone if thats the case but if he sees you everyday and never sees his wife then you still need to leave it alone cause the wife probly loves him to and misses him everyday and hour when hes probly out with you and dont break up that family even if it was falling apart let them work it out . what you need is a boyfirend to forget him
2007-01-27 08:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Janai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T BE SELF DESTRUCTIVE! IS THIS A ONE WAY STREET OR A TWO WAY STREET? IF IT'S JUST YOU FEELING THIS WAY, I THINK YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU ARE FEELING AND WHY, AND QUESTION IS IT LOVE? IS IT LUST? IS IT INFATUATION? ONCE YOU FIGURE THIS OUT, YOU NEED TO REMEMBER THE THINGS THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO YOU IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU WOULD WANT. FOR STARTERS LETS HOPE TRUST, HONESTY, RESPECT IS AT THE TOP OF THAT LIST. ONCE YOU HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THIS, I WOULD HOPE YOU WOULD UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FALLING FOR A MARRIED MAN IS OUT OF THE QUESTION. ANYONE WHO IS MARRIED ARE HANDS OFF!!!!
IF THE MARRIED MAN IS FEELING THE SAME ABOUT YOU, WATCH OUT BECAUSE YOU WILL HAVE BIGGER PROBLEMS THAN YOU COULD EVER THINK OF. REMEMBER, WHAT COMES AROUND GOES AROUND. AND TRUST THAT IT WILL!
IF THIS IS A BURDEN ON YOUR MIND AND HEART, YOU SHOULD SEE A PSYCHIATRIST.
2007-01-27 09:15:30 · answer #3 · answered by 1X1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's Not yours. One of the greatest parts of life is being in love with someone, but with that love comes heart break. You have to know that he has entered into something with an other women and you can not tamper with that, I'll tell you the best thing is, and that is if you will. Wait. If you want to be with him, or even express you feelings to him. Wait. His Marriage mite fail, and then you can pursue him, but not entill then. Its not Right, or fair to his wife or children(if he has any) Good luck to you, and i hope you take the right path.
2007-01-27 08:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become his mistress, what else? Besides, look at the benefits. you get what you want without having a man hanging around leaving the toilet seat up (or down, as some do), the cap off the toothpaste, underwear all over the floor, etc.
2007-01-27 08:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a popular line in Urdu, which if converted to English will read as below:
"Love bows to no force or power. It's a fire that can neither be set nor be put out to anyone's wish"
Thus, you have to be in Love if you are in Love. Only Love can pull you out of it, for only Love has pulled you in it !
2007-01-27 08:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cyphor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on his bad side.
This is not love, it is infatuation.
Love is between 2 people not 3.
Time to change your life. Go other places, do other things, be with other people. Life is a journey. Where does this lead you? Take a different path. Take up yoga.
2007-01-27 08:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by PeaceNow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should get him out of your mind. Hes married. If hes willing to have an affair with you, whos not to say he wouldnt do it to you in the future if y'all got together?
2007-01-27 08:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be in love with him all you want. But if he loves his wife dont persue anything because it is really hurtfull to the other person!!
2007-01-27 08:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with previous answer. please don't **** up someone's family by starting some thing that would lead the guy to commit adultery. be a good girl and find another guy. there plenty of testostrones running on the streets.
2007-01-27 08:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Badboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋