Just looking for some ideas, for later ;->
2007-01-27 00:34:03 · 22 answers · asked by Shadow_Dancer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am married to the man and have been for 8 years, things aren't boring, just looking for some new ideas. Actually the bedroom is quite hot, but would like to heat it up some more! ;-> We are having an affair with each other!
2007-01-27 00:48:52 · update #1
Get out of the bedroom...
Seriously...
Lets see stop lifts, christen golf courses... the posher the better.
Play Buffy the vampire slayeress gets staked in a grave yard.
The millenium wheel could be rechristend
Also look into remote controled vibrators where hubbie gets the controller to the vibrating device if wifes undies all day outside the house... any time he likes he can buzz her.
Make own porn.
Pole dance lessons and get one installed.
Snog in clubs like teenager... actually behave like teenagers in general.
short skirts and no panties are good
2007-01-27 00:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what y'all are interested in. You can try tying up your man at the wrists. Just use any silk scarves. Thats what I did. Keep a candle or 2 lit. Wear something sexy and tease him for awhile, then undress yourself in front of him. Once you feel that hes had enough, untie him. You can try taking things out of the bedroom if its possible. Also, you can surprise him when hes least expecting it. Dont wait till hes ready to make love. At the spur of the moment is fun. Make it a quickie LOL. My man loves when I do that.
2007-01-27 00:46:14 · answer #2 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Good Loving relationship is Essential to any Experimentation!
Without that Deep connection it's just LUST(Which is Selfish)!!.
Love and Love Making is a Selfless Mutual Act!
Adding 'Spice' then is a Natural Progression!
2007-01-27 00:42:08 · answer #3 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Strip Tease
2007-01-27 00:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one person's fun is another's Ewwww!!!... If it's for him... ask what he thinks...if it's for you... close your eyes... and play out a little scenario... this isn't about all us busy bodies... it's about you and him... and you two are as different from the rest of us as chickens are to horses... if it's become ho hum in the bedroom... take it out to the kitchen... if it's too hot... use an ice cube... if you can't decide... there's nothing like a shopping trip to the nearest ..uh..."store" to give you some ideas... it's not about the act... it's about the effort.
2007-01-27 00:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by alex b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Full body massage with baby oil and a blindfold for the lucky recipient, Let nature do the rest......its great.
or go to an adult shop out of town, the toys will give you all the ideas you need
2007-01-27 00:41:25 · answer #6 · answered by jim G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Spend some time apart.
Enjoy your personal lives apart.
Make special dates/times to be together.
Special clothes/costumes/hair/perfume/ambience.
Eat plenty of fresh fruit and veg.
Drink Red fruit juices.
Use the whole house/flat.
Good music that you both like.
Ylang ylang.
At least you recognise that its important!
2007-01-27 00:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by madresicilia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Color,fuzzy accessories
2007-01-27 00:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Dreamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blindfold your husband, then bring your girlfriend in. I think this will spice things up nicely.
2007-01-27 02:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by george n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the curtains open so the neighbors can get a peek.
2007-01-27 00:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by Bobby W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋