im 16 and have a crush on a guy who is in a relationship and who simply considers me as the girl with whom he has two lectures per week and with whom he exchanges a couple of words.
it has been going for a couple of months. i tried to ignore it and HIM. i dont want to be the cause that he breaks up with his gf who seems rly nice, im not worth him, i do not know him enough, i might simply have an infatuation.
its just that this whole ive been dreaming abt him and feeling smthing i never felt before like smthin swelling and nice, i dont know how to explain. im astonished cos im not a social person and usual dont have any strong feelings for anyone. its just nice to have him pat me on the head, and play with my hair and grab me by the waist.
What should i do? i dont what him to know cos im afraid it will ruin d little relationship we have.
2007-01-27 00:05:23 · 8 answers · asked by alexisvisjnic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is in a realtionship and her pats you on the head, plays with your hair and grabs your waist? What are you his pet dog? These feeling you have sound more like curosity than anything. This guy has a girlfreind and he is doing these things to you? What makes you think he won't do it with someone else if you were his girlfriend. Remain friends if you can, your better off.
2007-01-27 00:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm look he might be a good friend of urs ... and he may also consider u as the same ... i guess if u think he and his gf get along well then i think u must not spoil ur friendship... and may be as u said ur not a social person u might feel good getting close to him... but belive me as u will know this world and people around u, u will find the person who loves u like u loved someone.. ( i was in ur place some years back now i have found the person who loves me a lottttt)
2007-01-27 00:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by vandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is already patting you on the head, playing with your hair and grabbing you by the waist...he has more than just friendship feelings for you.
I'm sure his girlfriend is nice and all, but what should you care? They aren't married or even engaged, so you are free to make your play. If he chooses you over her, then so be it.
2007-01-27 00:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wait to see if he breaks up. You might consider finding someone else. There are plenty of fish in the sea. I know you probably get told this, but remember, you're only 16. : - )
2007-01-27 00:11:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ought to stay with someone who you could't stand. Your emotional well-being is only as substantial as hers and she or he's attempting to make her needs more desirable substantial than yours. the perfect component must be for both of you to seperate so that you both have a threat to locate someone who makes you both more than satisfied.
2016-10-16 04:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by asar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you pussyfoot your way through life, where will that get you? not as far as you could go.
don't know him enough? don't want to mess things up? whatever.
go ahead and have some fun, you only live life once.
just don't be a total bi -tch about it, no one likes that.
but yeah, don't be afraid to pursue your interests. you're a kid. it's not like you're trying to seduce a married man.
2007-01-27 00:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by synth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to say hi everytime you guys meet. commend his hair, get ting him to notice you is the first way of making him aware of you. i ended up liking this girl who did the same way to me, even though now she's gone, she still left an impression on me. he has to notice you, even though he might not return your greets, he'll notice more about your presence around him.
2007-01-27 00:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Soaring 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HE'S LOOKING FOR A FRIEND NOT A LOVER.
2007-01-27 00:10:25 · answer #8 · answered by jewbrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋