I have this guy and he says I am his best friend and he is that way to me when he is around. He once tried to kiss me and I said no I could not do that to a good friend. We stayed friends. He met this girl and she is older than him and I think she is playing games with him. I actually had planned on making more of our friendship one day but I went to his house and she was there. He calls me when he needs someone to talk to and all that. He has bought her an engagement ring and she is always shoving him off. He has really been getting his act together because of all I told him. Now I am feeling I might just want him... he falls easy for a woman.. I want him if he gets his act together.. I can see it in his face and all that.. what do I Do???????????????
2007-01-26 23:48:57 · 8 answers · asked by Pooh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, make sure that you really like him because it seems that you like him better now that he likes someone else, and not before when he only liked you.
If you are confused, try another approach. Show another guy to him, pretend like you really like this other guy too.
See how he reacts to that.
If he really likes you better than his girl friend now, he could ditch this other girl and try to win you back.
If he really doesnt like you anymore in "that way", he will act so happy for you.
If that happens, then just be happy for him that he found a person to love. EVen if you tried to make a last ditch effort to win him back by a revelation of your real feelings, he will not respond in the manner you want, and this will only break your heart.
At least this way, you save face and still be friends.
2007-01-26 23:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him fast! He seems to be diving into that reltionship. Tell him but don't act like your jooking around, be serious you might get him to realize that he can have a girl how likes him for him.
2007-01-26 23:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by dragoness 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have waited! Tell him NOW. Don't worry about anyone's feelings, especially not your own at this point. If you want him then you have to take a risk.
2007-01-26 23:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by RIVER 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him... guys are suckers for the up front and straight approach.
2007-01-26 23:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by matta_yasashi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a complicated situation. but actually just let it go... you can WAIT.
2007-01-26 23:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by terra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him, you fool!
2007-01-26 23:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love you you love me we are happy family with a big hug and kiss from me to you dont you say you love me too.......???@@@
2007-01-26 23:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
walk up to him put yur hand on his cork-n-balls and say "how about you and me raw dog it?"
2007-01-26 23:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by Loren H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋