I need your help, men it would be great if i got your suggestions. Well my boyfriend knew i was on the birth control pill, but i had to stop it to use another pill for another illness.
However we had sex recently and i didnt tell him and he came inside me, so there is a possibility that i maybe pregnant.
So i told him today that i maybe pregnant and told him why, and he got very angry.
We told me we are finished and i should get rid of his number and he is going to block me from his msn.
I love him very much and dont want to lose him at all!
We've been together for 1year and 6months, i dont want to lose him.
Please tell me how to make up back with him.
Please men i need your help!
2007-01-26 23:31:07 · 4 answers · asked by AngelEyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't have told him you might be pregnant when you didn't know for a fact. Get a pregnancy test done as soon as it's possible. The chances are it will be negative - in which case you can tell him. Maybe he'll calm down. Hopefully, he's just mad at you because of the moment but later on he will calm down. If he doesn't it shows a lot about him. A guy that behaves like that, doesn't really care about you or love you, in which case you've had a lucky escape. Of course it will take time to get over him, but in the long run you'll be glad it happened. Hope you meet a genuine nice guy next time. This guy doesn't sound worth it. Also read "The Rules" - there's a lot of sense there - don't act desperate or clingy, or give him too much. It puts guys off
2007-01-27 00:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by superscorer2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but if he was man enough to have sex, then he should be man enough to accept the consequences. Regardless of whether you where on the pill or not! Has he never heard of condoms? In these situations, you should always think of yourself first. Get a pregnancy test, put your mind at rest.
You must realise that if you are pregnant, you have a bigger decision to make than whether he will forgive you or not. Do you keep it or do you get an abortion?
If you get the all clear, then use an ancient method of communication: The Letter...You will need a piece of paper, a pen, and an envelope (stamps are optional, but they help!)
Simply tell him that if he is mature enough to have a sexual relationship, the he should accept the responsibilties and to think him self lucky that you are not taking La Marrs class and he is not paying child support!
Then leave it up to him. If he is not father material, and he is having sex without contraception, then he should be chemically neutered! I am a man, and I always stated that if I ever got a woman pregnant, then I would accept the responsibility, whatever the results!
Hope this Helps!
2007-01-27 13:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain your illness and why you could not take both pills. Go get checked to see if you are pregnant. But, by the way he sounds he doesn't want a kid period. Sounds like he thought you tried to trap him and that he just wanted sex with no strings or hardships. To get angry and to tell you to loose his number sounds like a jerk when you said you may be pregnant. Maybe is a big word. He should have stuck around long enough to make sure your weren't.
2007-01-27 09:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
However we had sex recently and i didnt tell him and he came inside me, so there is a possibility that i maybe pregnant.
That was very stupid... ever heard of morning after pills.?
He probably thought you tried to trap him and can't trust you.
Certainly does not want to be a dad soons.
Why on earth did you do that?
Why didn't you say you were on medication and use condoms?
Not sure how to get him to trust you aint gonner turn him into a daddy
2007-01-27 08:58:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋