My boyfriend makes me feel ugly and i have no self confidence because he is always drooling over women that are so much better than me. Im thinking about getting a boob job to get him to notice me and fancy me more. should i do it?
2007-01-26 23:17:03 · 8 answers · asked by Cherry Pie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOOO!!!!!!!! DUMP THE DUMBASS!!!!!!!!! A boyfriend is supposed to make you feel GOOD, not ugly!!!!!!! If he doesn't like you for who you are than he is not your boyfriend.....
And lets make a switcharoo, you make him feel ugly, tell him his feet stinks, tell him his nose looks like micheal jackson, tell him his ears look like dumbo, i wonder how we woulld start feeling then, just like you feel now....
2007-01-26 23:31:01 · answer #1 · answered by Bob the Cat.™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if nothing else, you must read this. NEVER NEVER CHANGE WHO YOU ARE TO PLEASE SOMEONE ELSE. The only time that you should change is if it is what you want. You need a self cofidence and esteem boost, and apparently your bf isnt doing that. What he is doing to you is a form of abuse. Never degrade yourself. Always stay true to yourself. There are plenty of people out there in this world that would like, love, and be happy with who you are...
On the other hand when it comes to boob job? Ok picture this you will be 80 yrs old walking around with everything else sagging and perky boobs? That would be wrong on so many levels... (lol) God has made you the way that he sees you to be and that is something you should not change.
One thing that I have learned in life is that you should never compromise who you are, your standards, your morals, or your self being just to make someone else happy. Why would you want to go that extreme to make someone happy, so you could be miserable? Doesnt make sense to me. If I had to compromise who I was along with my standards and morals, I just assume to be happy being single so that I could stay true to myself... There is someone out there that will appreciate you for you..
Good luck
2007-01-27 09:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by unforseenfantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because then he will drool over your boobs and not you. If he makes you feel ugly and unconfident verbally you need to drop him like yesterday. He is suppose to love you for you. After you have a girlfriend their is no longer a reason to be looking. He chose you, so his eyes should be on you. Forget that crap about guys just want to look and their is no harm. Their is harm. They eventually start fantasizing and wonder off into someone else's jeans.
2007-01-27 08:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is a new boy friend. This one stinks in my books. He will bring you down to nothing, boobs and all. Hold your head up high and show him you couldn't care less.You can do better. He's not going anywhere in life, to into himself. He has to put others down to make himself feel Superior.
2007-01-27 07:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply put,'hell no'.if your man truely cares about you he would build you up,not tear you down.this is what you call emotional abuse and if you allow it then it will only get worse.you deserve better get rid of him and find some one who cares about you for the person you are 'inside and out' then your life will be much happier.please realize evev if you go through with this it will not be enough for him he will still want more and still end up leaving in the end.good luck
2007-01-27 07:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heck no! if ur with a guy that doesnt appreciate u fully for who u are, then he's not worth it. ur sposed to be with someone who loves u for who u are, not someone who u have to completely change urself for. get rid of him, the guy's a complete jerk.
2007-01-27 07:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by milhouse21386 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u shuld'nt change & just dont care dat what ppl say & just be urself
2007-01-27 07:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Daksh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost and find someone who will appreciate you!
2007-01-27 07:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋