Someone around 37 who would like to be a role model in my kids life, i see other kids with 2 parents, and sometimes i feel sorry for mine, especially my son
2007-01-26 23:10:42 · 8 answers · asked by mygirlsmokey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi i have been a single mother it is hard its funny i met my hubby after i had given up - we had known each other as freinds in a sporting club for some time - he just did not have the courage to ask me out till he got drunk ( silly bugger )
me i had freinds settign me up left right and centre - not worth bothering with
sometimes we try to hard and maybe the person you are looking for is not the right person
funny my hubby is opposite to what i was looking for - but hes great
stop looking and just live your life and hey he might be there or just around the next corner and he may be nothing like you think
either way your kids will do better for you just caring for them than getting involved with the wrong guy
good luck
2007-01-26 23:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got a critical problem, I guess. I think you should immediately stop the haunt for such a man. Remember, if you are in such a situation where you are a single mom then it is decided by destiny. If someone is going to enter your life then it will happen one day. But do not wait and watch or beg for someone. On other side if you get a life partner and a father for your children then it is not sure that he will be good role model. So please give you some time. Everything will be sorted out.
2007-01-27 07:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by magnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are giving an open invitation to pedophiles to look you up. There are men who target single women for the sole purpose of going after their children. I raised my three children alone and I was the role model for them all including my son. You don't need a man to teach your son morals and right from wrong. You can get him involved in city sports or a leisure service activity if that is your concern too. It's more important to keep your children safe and healthy than to potentially expose them to sexual or physical abuse. Don't feel guilty about having children and raising them by yourself. Be confident. Be careful.
2007-01-27 07:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, your are worring for your son. it is natural. Be patient. What is the age of your kids. You have to fine a good match for you and your
kids. He should be in a position to accept your son and vice versa.
It is better to select a person in your relation. Even he will keep you
and your kids happy.
2007-01-27 08:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by jaya s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are all kind of different ways.go out in the community to different functions they may have.you may want to join a church,but only do this if you are doing it for the right reasons.there is afternoons in the park you might meet new friends who may want to set you up,all kinds of possiblities.one thing to remember is you will meet some one when the time is right and do not settle out of desperation.good luck
2007-01-27 07:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone who will be compatible for you first, then see if he's also a match for the kids as well.
2007-01-27 07:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are out there, My wife was 34 and had 3 kids when I met her, I was proud to take them on ( the little Bast**** ).
2007-01-27 07:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by Matthew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM ME we can chat
2007-01-27 07:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by BIG DICK 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋