can a man tell when a woman is attracted to him?

Question

how can a man tell when a woman fancys him? are there signs?

Answer 1

i can by her eyes and body language

Answer 2

For the most part that's all they do. I mean in a situation where neither of them have spoken to each other. If they're already friends or something, they MIGHT do something else. The good ones do. The rest (majority) just sit and look pretty and hope against all hope that a they catch the eye of a good man. Usually (not always) it's just the losers that go hit on them, though. Just to clarify why it's the losers that do most of the "hitting on girls" you only need to look at the how the system works for a moment. How many women does a good man have to approach? Just a few. He's a great guy and most women can probably tell if he's got enough confidence to be open about himself. How many women does a loser have to approach? Quite a lot. For a couple reasons. 1) He has to find a women who can't see through is BS or doesn't care. 2) Even if he gets one girl, he's not going to stop there. Just a numbers game for these guys.

Answer 3

Oh my gosh, my love... there are SOOOO many signs women put out there to show interest, in fact, they have books out there that tell you what the subtly hints are. Even when I try to prevent showing any signs of interest in a man, my friends/people know right off the bat how I feel about him. It's subconscious! Anyway, a major hint is when a woman touches your arm or does anything she can to physically get closer to you. When she laughs (especially, the "head-back-loud-laugh-with-a-clap") at your jokes, fully pays attention to you when you talk, has a "perma-grin" around you, these are all signs of attraction. Hey, if all else fails and you're not sure what signals she's throwing at you... ask. If she's interested in you she'll let you know, if not, she'll let you know.

Answer 4

To be honest, there are some signs that a woman is interested in you. Generally it's body language.

A woman who is interested tends to lean more towards you in conversation. One who is not, tends to turn more away. When she turns towards you, that shows that she tends to trust you more and is offering more of herself to you. ( Not bodily, don't get your mind in the gutter now, stay with me. )

Some women tend to touch you more when they are interested. Small strokes across your hand, a hand across your shoulder in gesture, or a pat on your leg. This would apply to a more outgoing woman, than a reserved one.

Some women tend to flip their hair or lick their lips more when they have an interest in you. Observe this during conversation. I'm not saying that EVERY woman who does this is interested in you, but it is one of the signs that she may be.

Clock watching- If she repeatedly looks at her watch, you're boring her to death, but she's tolerating you for the sake of being polite.

Cutting off conversation, or telling you that she has to go - This is another sign of disinterest. That's an obvious one!

Looking around the room constantly while you talk- She's definitely disinterested in you. She's trying to find something other than you to keep her interest.

Brother, generally.... if they are interested, you're gonna know it. If they aren't, well..... you know the rest.

Answer 5

I don't think so. All those signs I show when I genuinely like someone. But that doesn't mean I'm physically attracted to them at all. Oftentimes I'm not with men who I am friendly towards or feel comfortable with. Usually, I'm the most distant to the men I'm attracted to, because I just don't know how to react or sometimes my attraction is overwhelming. I don't think they would ever know that I was into them.

Answer 6

My "stupid", now husband, then boyfriend, could not tell that I was attracted to him. I loved and still do love him to death, but he was so clueless about that it was pathetic. I would dress up, go over there with his favorite beer and stuff to cook dinner and breakfast the next day, and try so hard to make it obvious that I really liked him and he had no idea for the longest time. LOL

Answer 7

body language is an important way...

eye contact -- watching you and looking away when you look back and touching hair at the same time

body position -- open and angled toward you

tone of voice -- higher and softer

but be careful of body language -- do not read it too literally... sometimes I have my arms folded because I am cold, not because I am closed to what the person is saying.

Answer 8

Sadly, I don't think so.

Answer 9

yea