one of my girl friend,exxxtrrrrrrrrrrrrremly gorgeous had an infatuation to me.but i dint realize at that time,later on when i fell in love,hell like love,with her, she had got another boyfriend.later on i too got a loving girl.
but the problem is after one year of no contact with that ex friend am unable to get her out of my thoughts.i cant keep in touch with her cuz i love my current girl sincerely,though my ex is really a temtation..but sometimes she calls me on phone and am tempted to flirt with her.so i start calling and messaging her,but she wont respond,she will talk to me now and thenm when she calls me.
the thing is i cant ask her to stop calling as she is coming like a madf dream in my thoughts everyday,but if she calls me once in every month i cant control but stroke for her.but i have to be sincere with my current girl.what shall i do?
2007-01-26 22:49:39 · 24 answers · asked by elina rosedom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like an exert fron -DAYS OF OUR LIVES
2007-01-26 22:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about making choices what drove you towards ur forst gf the physical attaraction which u cant get from second.Or u wish to have best of both.Think deeply are u addicted to endorphins (hormones released when u r in love)which u want more and more with time.So friend do not get addicted make arational judgement and choose who is best for u
2007-01-26 22:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by wizzrad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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This is probably the most important part. With texting, you can stop and think about what you want to say to your ex at each step of the way. Instead of reacting emotionally, you can take your time, figure out the right thing to say (I’ll give you most of it), and be strategic with your ex without saying something that you’ll regret.
2016-04-25 06:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should leave the past in the past, by that i mean, you two had a chance to date before your current girlfriend even came into the picture but because of fate at the time stepping in you couldn't. sometimes fate steps in to save you before you make a costly mistake maybe you and your ex were meant to only be friends i suggest you don't look back but move forward with the current girlfriend you don't wanna mess up your future dwelling on the past
2007-01-26 23:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sincere to your current, you wont be doing all these STUPID THINGS! PUT A STOP TO IT! You are being unfair now.
You cannot put all the blame on your ex, it takes two hands to clap.
It's either you end up losing both or continue to be faithful, extremely, to your current.
2007-01-26 22:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by bore_tired 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree with Winona - JUST FORGET HER.
She is messing you around. Drawing you into her web.
She does not want you. She just does not want anyone
else to have you.
THINK of your current girlfriend. If you thought anything of her
at all you would not be living in fantasy land with this other
one. You have got to make a decision - break up with your
girlfriend and ask the other one back, finish contact with both
of them and give yourself time to get your head clear. Or ask
your ex to make a go of it again.
JUST be true to your girlfriend and yourself or you are going to
drive yourself crazy......
2007-01-26 23:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with the one you love at the moment
its probably that you just still have feelings for your ex that you cant get rid of its not unusual for that to happen. just think if you broke up from the gf now you would still feel for her a little thats y its called love cause it hurts like hell
2007-01-26 22:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by creme8888 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't have to do anything u choose to b w/ current gf. U can change your mind anytime!!!! sounds like there might b something there w/ the Ex!!!
2007-01-26 22:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does this ex of yours know that you're attached? and if you say that you've a loving girl, then why are you still tempted to flirt with your ex??you gotta make a choice dude..you can't have the best of both worlds..
2007-01-26 22:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 girl at a time romeo. Save some for the rest of us and make sure your having safe sex.
2007-01-26 22:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by Nate H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the current. Love can wait. Go stroke her in real. lol
2007-01-26 22:53:37 · answer #11 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋