I have a girlfriend.I love her very much.she also love me very much.But her mother can't stand the idea of love marrige.
now my girlfriend can't hurt her mother.so she have decided to break our relation.but i can't live without her.my girlfriend is not a bad girl & she loves me very much.please give me a solution.Her mother is very much conscios about cust & age.how i can change my cust & how i can increase my age upto 1 year & how i convince her mother 2 marry her dauther??please give me a solution plezzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
2007-01-26 22:45:03 · 16 answers · asked by Arnab R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
u can change your religion in her religious place. ucan change yor age through change in xerox copy of your birth certificate.
but u leave for a time yhan do all that thing & keep patience.
2007-01-26 22:52:53 · answer #1 · answered by Udit D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems you are quite desperate to have your girl friend. In India it is not a problem to get false birth and caste certificates. You only have to bribe the appropriate authorities. Thousands of people in India do it. But honestly, I've never heard of an instance when a man does it to marry his girl friend. Also remember that your changed age and caste is going to stay with you and might affect your job or other opportunities in your life, unless you go about making a second change later on. That might involve more problems. So, you better be cautious about this step at the very outset.
The best way, by far is to try and convince your girl friend's mother. Conviction and perseverance will help you. You must use all the powers of your persuasion to convince her to the idea of your and your girl friend's mutual happiness. If necessary, enlist the assistance of your friends, parents and well wishers in your effort. And ask your girl friend to speak to your mother a little on your behalf. I'm sure that together you can prevail on her.
2007-01-28 00:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to wait, because no matter how much you love her it sounds as if she will not be mature enough to make a decision without her mothers approval. Maybe sit back and keep your relationship still in the dating/friends stage and as time goes by and her mother sees that you are not pressuring her she will respect you being so patient and she will know that you are not giving up on your relationship with her daughter and it will all fall into place as your girlfriend will eventually stand up for herself. Don't give up your Faith or Customs, that is part of you and she should not have to give up hers, when you two finally unite you both will be bringing a special gift to your marriage, two people can learn from each other and if you decide to have children you can teach them both of your Customs and Religion. Be yourself, and be patient. Good luck to you.
2007-01-27 01:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of questions or better situations should have answer in yes or no format.There is no stage in between.You should be ready to face either.
What i suggest you to talk to your girl friend and seriously tell that you can not live with out her and express your need and clearly tell that you are going to have chat with her mother about the decision.You express yourself clearly to her mother,then give her time..tell her that the situation as of now has completely been changed unlike earlier.Age,Cast etc are no bars in marriage.Make her mother realise the change in society.People should have no concerns about the relationship if they love each other and well settled.Tell her in a confident manner.I am sure that she will definitely understand.
2007-01-26 23:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Avatar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you wait for some more time say for four to five years, study well, get a high salaried job and then approach the girl friend's mother. Her mother will definitely not say no when she sees her son-in-law driving his own car and also earning very well. In the meantime, you can also continue your relationship without her mother's knowledge.
2007-01-28 05:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by spiritual healer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is a cust? and why do you need to increase your age by a year? If you say the girl is a good girl not bad then forget about her going back to you. because good girls always do what their parents want them to do. especially because the girl doesn't want to disapoint her mom. sorry for you but good luck
2007-01-30 17:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it can be hard to get over someone but remember, you only have to get over them once. If you were to continue with this relationship you would be doing this run around with her and her mother all the time. She obviously feels more love and loyalty towards her mother than to you. You need to let her go.
2007-01-30 15:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sara K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the mother and move in.
You can have the daugther whenever you want. If you get a divorce you can file to keep the kid
2007-01-30 17:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by harvsterh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make people like you. Continuing on with this relationship will only make you unhappy and frustrated.
I sugest you just move on. There is not one female out there that is worth the trouble.
2007-01-27 02:49:30 · answer #9 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what we do in right here in the rustic: Say "F*** it, i admire her! it is the 21 century! i'm tryin' to be respectful, yet *heavily*!" The quote some Romeo & Juliet, ideally while Romeo is describing Juliet, and tear at your hair somewhat, to coach you're in misery and accessory the actuality which you *rather* want to marry her. p.s.: once you communicate approximately her, get this windy voice and stare off into the gap. ;D
2016-09-28 01:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋