hi im 14 and have never had a boyfriend, the last time i asked a guy out i got rejected!!! well let me tell u the story this dude came over from new zealand the very day he came it was like we trusted each other even though we barely new each other ever since then i have had to hide it from him even though we tell each other every thing. my dad and his dad own a business together and we see each other nearly every day plz help me
2007-01-26 22:33:32 · 8 answers · asked by tenielle c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask him..dont be afraid to get rejected..and if you do, its his loss not yours..at least you did what you have to do..and you wont be thinking what might happen if you did, when u dont ask him.
2007-01-26 22:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i feel seen that it will be your first boyfriend, let it be special , you deserve that. If he in anyway found you as one he would like to date, he would have either asked you out or rather given you some sort of sign. It could be that he does really like you or else he would not have hung around with you, but this could be -a friendship or companionship attraction.
You said that you have been rejected before, don't let it be a second time as thi s could ruin your friendship. There is nothing more fulfilling than having been asked out by the person you care for.
It may be difficult at first but it will come to pass.Besides i personaly believe it is below a women to ask a guy out.
He is your friend he cares for you already, let him be the one to commit if thats what you want, you sound like a respectable and proud peson.
Keep your dignity and all would fall into place.You are slso very young , take it slow, good luck.
2007-01-27 07:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by ladybird 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 years old, I doubt that it is LOVE.It may be an awesome crush at best. You say that you trust each other; if that is true then expressing you feelings should not be hidden. Tell your dad how you have strong feeling for this guy. The love and support your family provides is greater than any other Love in the world.
Tell your dad that you would like to ask this guy out and you are seeking out his advice and approval.
2007-01-27 06:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation huh
No offence but i wouldnt really call this love.
I think you should get to know the guy alot more and become like his best friend then when the times right i bet you 2 will be the happiest couple. Or just swallow up you gut and ask him out.
The worst thing he could say is no right?
I live in new zealand 2 ha!
2007-01-27 06:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feel the same, but let him do the first step just wait dear. it's not for a girl to ask out to the boy, just tell him do u like to walk, he will understand that u feelings the same.. good luck
2007-01-27 06:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good, you see each other every day. Love will blossom.Maybe its the same that side.Wait and watch.
2007-01-27 06:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should show him ur intrested start flirting with him see if he flirts back now sumtimes guys can be blind to hints so yea jsut be careful so dont take it as rejection!
2007-01-27 06:47:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy. Assuming when you find out your female friend, what will you do for her? If you're boy, what will you do for him? To be gender free mind and he will be yours.
2007-01-27 06:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by airreformer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋