...but he said we should go out tomorrow evening to celebrate his birthday- he is going to be 23. Must i pay? I think it would be wrong if he did.
also, if you tell me to get a prezzie, what must i choose?
thanks!
2007-01-26 22:25:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s...im on a budget too!
2007-01-26 22:59:59 · update #1
ahhh thats nice ..so he only ask u , alone, to accompanied him on his big day ? ahh hehe *grin* ..yup i guess treating him to dinner wud be nice n mayhaps a present like urm cds , perfume , guy's jellweries , cap , etc (totally depends on wuts he's into ) something that doesnt make him think you think ure his gf ..yet ...
Have a nice date :D
2007-01-26 22:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably go halves on the meal, although as he asked you out i'm sure he'll be planning on paying for all of it. Take enough money so you can pay for all of it if needs be.
As for a present, book a hotel room for the night or is that too much if you've only seen him 4 times?! Or if you are taking things slow, say you'll treat him to the cinema next week or something like that. Wouldn't buy a proper present, its too early and might scare him away.
2007-01-27 00:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Esquire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aftershave, nothing too expensive though or a gadget of some sort, depends what he is in to, as for paying for the meal, wait until the bill comes, if he insists on paying, you insist on taking him for a drink and buy a nice bottle of wine or a cocktail, what ever he likes
2007-01-26 22:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Aisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a card, buy his first drink and celebrate his b-day with him. If you decide to get him a present, get him a gag gift to ease any tensions.Stick to your values in regards to paying. Yes its his b-day and possibly got cash from a relative. he did suggest that you two should go out to celebrate. Be careful, he maybe looking for a FREE night out. Also make sure you tell the waiter/waitress it is his b-day so they sing to him and ask them to give him the check when they are done singing.
2007-01-26 22:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him your Picture. Maybe have it Framed, nicely. I'm Old-School. So I don't like Women paying for Any Date. You, being there? And your Lovely Gift. Should be more than enough of a gesture. But that's just me.
2007-01-26 22:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think paying for the meal would be sufficient. You are not officially an item, you possibly don't know him that well, and could buy the completely wrong thing....
Make yourself the present? nice undies, lovely outfit, new hair do?
2007-01-26 23:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by Janey1973 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He asked you out, so it's kind of a date but I would offer to pay at least your half, buy him a gift by all means, perhaps a CD? Something you'd buy a 'friend' until you to get it on!!!
2007-01-26 22:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only get him a card or balloon with happy bd on it. I would not buy a gift.
* If you go out, go dutch!*
Unless you're dating, or you go with a group who decide to split the tab, it's not up to you to pay his way. Men, real men, take care of themselves.
2007-01-26 22:30:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should pay for your half of the night and he should pay the other, as for a present, maybe a cd you know he likes or vouchers for his fave shop. nothing too extreme.
2007-01-26 22:34:14 · answer #9 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay for his dinner & give him a nice, middle of the range bottle of red wine with your best smile.
2007-01-26 22:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋