I have quite the dilemma on my hands here...
Brief history includes a cheating ex girlfriend with no job, an apartment we co-lease, and parents of mine who want me closer to them (they live 2.5 hours away)
what do I do, go move in with my parents while I get back on my feet (I'm financially drained) or do I let my ex move back in because she still wants to be roommates for lord knows what reasons, but she already warned me that she'd be going out and partying with her new "friends" and she hasn't been reliable and doesn't have a job and doesn't seem to be getting one very quickly.
I would like to stay, it's a nice apartment and i hate the whole moving process... but I can't afford the place alone and the X won't get off the lease, she'll only let me off the lease. So if that was the case I wouldn't just move somewhere else in town, I'd move 2.5 hours away and start over there. So either move in with my parents, or let my cheating ex have the spare room. what would you do?
2007-01-26 22:06:48 · 5 answers · asked by gretz_2324 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your X is a moron.
I would move back to your parents, get away from her for a while. You don't need that kind of bad energy in your life. Go to the real estate/landlord and explain she has moved out - they take her off the lease. I also think your X has a twisted view on life - let her live her twisted life without dragging you into it. You sound like a nice person, you can do better then her!!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-26 22:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Moz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say find another roommate, but that doesn't seem possible. If you are absolutely in love with the apartment I'd say to let her back in until the lease it up...and then have another roommate that could move in instead of her. If you can deal with leaving the apartment I'd say deff leave and start over. You don't need someone like that in your life, even if it's just living with her. It can't be healthy emotionally.
2007-01-26 22:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a fan of going back to the parents myself, but in this case I would do that just long enough to get some money together, so that you can get away from this X.
2007-01-26 22:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by The Scorpion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave that cheater,,,,,it is better to live a hardest life than with a cheater
2007-01-26 22:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by usma A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do better than her, and what about getting some other roomates?
2007-01-26 23:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋