today i feel awful..it,s my sisters hen night tonight she is getting married in 2 weeks time to a lovely guy..my other sister is also married to a lovely guy..as for me well am divorced and am with this guy who i,m sure is playing around on me..woke this morning to find a text message from him saying how sexy,classy and lovely i was then it said at the end ooops sorry sent to the wrong number..what would you make of that? it really made me think if he can send that out to me then i don,t mean a lot to him do i..any advice or what do you think?
2007-01-26 21:48:00 · 21 answers · asked by hawthorn330 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him, he's a jerk.
2007-01-26 21:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can read between the lines of that text. If he is the joker type probably thought you would find it funny and didn't mean any harm. Can't really think it was serious as lets face it he would just clear what he had written and not send. However if you are sure he is playing around you must confront him. If he denies it are you going to believe him? As you are feeling so low you may be blown things out of proportion. Also in your posting you don't come over as if you are mad keen on this guy. There are millions more out there so if he's not the one get out there, enjoy life and who knows?
2007-01-26 22:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you should talk to the your partner, ask him whats going on and why he sent you that text message. If he is play around and being a complete retard basically, then he isn't worth it and you should tell him that you don't want to see him again, because if a guy messes you around then he isn't worth a second of your precious time. I would say that you next step is to go and treat yourself, even to just a small thing you really like. Then just wait until you come across a really nice man, someone who wants to be with you and doesn't mess you around!
I know you may feel the need to be with someone, as both your sisters are in stable relationships, but you don't need a man to make you happy. You need a good life with good people in it to make you happy, people who care, people who love you and are kind and generous to you, not people who mess you around.
2007-01-27 01:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by wiccanfairiekitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that your feeling low, if I am to be honest I would say that if your unhappy in your relationship and dont trust your partner then call it a day with him. You deserve better than to made to feel like this. In time you will met the right the person for you and I always say it will happen when you least expect it. Take some time out for yourself, go away for a short break to clear your head, or go out with friends or join a fitness class or something, it will help occupy your mind, increase your confidence and improve your social life. Good luck and do what you feel is best dont let anyone bully/pressure you into staying with them.
2007-01-26 21:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was just making a joke. What else makes you think he's playing around on you ? Did your ex-husband do that ?
Be sure before you dump this guy, although I have to wonder why the two of you weren't out together on Friday night if you knew you wouldn't see each other on Saturday ?
Try not to be too down. Go out & have fun tonight, things will turn around soon.
2007-01-26 22:01:28 · answer #5 · answered by Well, said Alberto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have meant that text as a joke, there are a lot of these texts going around. But, if your partner makes you feel this insecure, and you have all these worries going round your head about what he might be doing, maybe you need to assess where your relationship is headed. You may love him and feel he is the one, but on the other hand, don't feel you have to continue on a destructive path just because you feel you need someone because your sisters both have someone, much better to wait for someone who makes you feel good about yourself
2007-01-26 21:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 01:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up and dump him if you know for sure he is cheating. No suspicious but concrete evidence. You are still young, single, and available. Go get your hair done, nails, and feet. Go to the movies and see something good. Come home and just relax. Clear yourself of all negative thinking. This is your new beginning. Everything has its time. Don't put up with people using you, get rid of everything that connects you with him...anything of his put it in a box and have him come get it or toss it out. Get ready to reopen shop. A sexy, classy, and lovely woman is in town. Oh yeah friends are very important at this time in helping to have fun and teach you a few pointers.
2007-01-27 01:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by narcisscus24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that your abit depressed and sound abit on the lonley side too, more then too people take a partner to make them happy.
If he is not making you happy, then you need to take a step back and take timeout. It betta to be single then to be miserable in a dead end relationship.
Go and find yourself and do what makes you happy, and then only when ready find someone who gonna appreciate you. Dont jump into bed with the first person who tells you ur beautiful. Make them wait and get to know them, then you wont end up in the same situation again.
I was single for 3 years before I dated my present partner. I had to find myself first, too deal with of all the past hurts, jealousy and insercurities, then I could move on, and i found out that no one could give you happiness and love only you. You cant give away what you dont have.
2007-01-26 22:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by darkchild 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is either being an idiot or he has just sent you a joke that has probably been round the world and sent to millions of people. so you can either ask him straight out what hes playing at and risk losing someone who actually does really like you OR you can just take it as a joke and carry on until you have absolute proof that he is cheating on you.
your choice. good luck.
2007-01-26 22:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably joking but not a kind one if you are feeling insecure about the relationship how is it the rest of the time if he is always being like this or putting you down he might not be happy with you have a really good think only you can decide if you want to be with him can you both be happy or do you find happiness elsewhere its a big world out there good luck
2007-01-26 23:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋