but it's kinda embarassing to go to those type stores for that stuff and I have been putting it off , should I just bite the bullet and go get it? any women found this type stuff fun?
2007-01-26 21:37:02 · 16 answers · asked by yawhosucs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO IT. If you don't, she'll always remember that she told you her fantasy and you never tried to do it for her (it happened to me). She'll still have the fantasy, but eventually it'll be her being tied up by somebody other than you. That's not good.
Here's what ya do:
Go on-line or in the phone book and find Adult Stores about 10 to 30 miles away from where you live or work (you don't want to run into anybody you know). Call them. Ask if they carry paraphernalia like shackles, hand-cuff, roll-playing toys for bondism, but the safe padded kind that don't actually hurt you. Find out if they are in stock, find out how much it costs (pay cash), and find out what time they open & close. Buy the stuff soon after they open or just before they close to avoid crowds. Put it in the trunk of your car. Take it home, gift wrap it, and leave it UNDER your bed so you can bring it out at the right (private) moment. She'll go crazy for you, and it'll mean alot to her that you went through all that to make her happy.
Good luck, have fun, and enjoy fulfilling her fantasies.
P.s.
Then you get to tell her one of your fantasies, but I'd try not to mention anything involving her hot sister. ;)
2007-01-26 21:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by HunterGreen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK. Stop and think a minute how lucky you are that your wife wants to be kinky in the bedroom. Swallow the embarrassment factor and go and get it. Trust me you'll have fun! Or another option would be ordering them on line check out http://www.adameve.com/default.aspx?cookie_test=1
You can order from there or have them send a catalog so you and your wife could look at it together. They have a great cheap selection of things.
2007-01-27 05:43:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are loads of places online where you can get this kind of stuff. A lot easier and less embarrasing than going to a store!!!
Yes i do find this kind of thing fun! Why should sex have to be boring? It is good to find ways of spicing it up - especially when you're in a long term relationship. It is good that you are both open minded and willing to try new things. Trust me - you are gonna LOVE it!!!
Have fun
2007-01-27 05:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by littlekitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the above posters, online shopping is the way to go, there's tons of stuff out there. Why not sit down and browse stuff online together? It's great your wife feel comfortable enough to share her sexual fantasies with you and great that you are considering trying it out. Good luck and have fun.
2007-01-27 05:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by BabyRN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
order it online, my wife ordered all that type of stuff online, my wife loves being restrained and i like restraining her and using her in ways that really get her off.
I once kept her in restraints with a gag and a huge vibe toy inserted in both holes and then sat back for a couple of hours and watched her come over and over again.
2007-01-27 05:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Order the stuff online and then enjoy the ride
2007-01-27 05:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people that work their are used to seeing these purchases everyday, they won't even notice, and its not like you have to see these people again, but if you really can't do it than just order it on-line. me? i really don't care for these things, but its nice that your wife can do it with no problem.
2007-01-27 05:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Order it online and be glad your wife isnt bored and looking else where. Im sure you'll enjoy it if she does.
2007-01-27 05:40:07 · answer #8 · answered by salinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are looking for bondage gear you can buy this stuff on line. Go to www.jtsstockroom.com you will find everything you need. good luck and have fun.
2007-01-27 05:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by ogrething2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not order it online if you're embarrassed?
they should have some mail order shops or EBAY?
hey, i think your wife should go get them seeing as she is the one who wants to use it on you
hehe wild woman
2007-01-27 05:41:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋