there is this guy that i like from church. i talked to him rarely, but after i found him on myspace, i started talking to him even more. we never talk about anything special, just about church stuff. he invited me to alot of activities, but i only went to two. the first one, he never even said hello. the second one was bowling. he invited me to go, and then picked me up. he then told me that we were picking up another girl. when i got there i found that it was a church activity. he was talking to another girl who was really annoying and ugly more than he payed attention to me. then i got a ride home with someone else. i know he is really shy. you think je is being shy an di have to break through his shell? or should i just give up on him? his sister says he likes me, but my friend says im out of his league(he is kinda a nerd) could that be it? should i be more aggressive?
2007-01-26 21:36:20 · 3 answers · asked by melelisi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he was talking to that other girl more than you, that can be a good sign. It might mean that he likes you and he's just too nervous to talk to you. Maybe you should invite him to do something that you want to do. OR you could always just ask him whats going on!! Myspace or Messenger is an easy way to do it because there isnt that face to face pressure. Good Luck!!!
2007-01-26 22:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by deere73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you told me, he sounds like a nice guy and his trying to involve you in his activites - which is a good sign. I personally would just take time to get to know him more and see what happens because it doesn't sound like you two know each either all that well. Also, as with any relationship questons, I believe that being honest and open with the other person is very important. If you really want to know what is going on, why don't you just ask him! You then won't have to think about what he is thinking - this can be frustrating and confusing to both of you. Oh and about your comment about him being a nerd - not very nice to say about anyone especially someone you say you may be interested in.
2007-01-27 05:45:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he’s dense and doesn’t notice you looking at him. Are you shy as well? Try being a good friend first, see where that goes. Being nerdy and shy doesn’t mean he’s not interested in you. Just because he is speaking with another girl doesn’t mean he in interested in her more than in a plutonic way. Be his friend, leave the rest to God. ;)
2007-01-27 05:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋