I've got cheated more than 4 times. Ex-es slept with other girls and stuff. The thing is, I aint that bad. But after all I've been through all these years.. I've a few friends telling me that I'm afraid to love. Is is true that being over-protective of myself would actually lead to that? Great guys came into my life but I just couldnt bring myself to be really IN LOVE with someone again. I believe in love, I do. But the thing is, why am i always running away from it? You know, I actually thought that if I'm gonna be in a relationship again, that would be my last. How ridiculous is that? I'm not sure.. but am I really afraid to love someone?
2007-01-26 21:25:52 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Build your character like the Muslim women. Then find a suitable man for u and simply get married. This will save u from many bad things. This GF/ BF business is really weired and against moral values of every religion.
2007-01-26 21:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by RAHadi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ashley,
I understand why you are afraid to love again. But that would only be the way in order for you to know that someone will love you for real. Give others chance and you'll see a guy that will love you truly..
Goodluck and Take care!
2007-01-26 21:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe. I've noticed that women nowadays really want the "bad boy" so they can try to change them. You need to pick someone who is more stable and will be willing to be committed to you. Take your time and DON'T act desperate. Desperation can be felt a mile away and usually attracts the worst people.
2007-01-26 21:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by therazorsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YA, But I can not blame you one bit . !!! . I'am in a bind right now I have fallen in love but right now I think mine is f......... around on me on one of those dating site , he never want to make love to me unless I start it . I have also caught him on it my self I then told him either he want us to stay together or dose he want some thing eles and that I could be moved out by next week he keeps on telling no he wants me so right now I can not blame you for thinking that way either GOOD LUCK GIRL I MEAN IT .
2007-01-26 21:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone thinks it will be their last dont they? love hard and its more difficult to go there again, I sympathize. quit trying to be in a relationship and just be yourself. maybe it'll happen naturally, nicely, unexpectedly. sometimes when you lose hope finally it helps you re-examine yourself for a time until you find hope once again. peace
2007-01-26 21:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you are afraid to love and enter a relationship. i hope that you will give another chance to all the great guys that come into your life as you said. before you say YES to him, you have to reassure that: if he wants to attempt to become unfaithful to you, he should think twice and you will LEAVE HIM!!!!!!!!! ok?? so gud luck to you...... i will pray for you and all of us (WOMEN).
2007-01-26 21:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥@n$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋