I have a "friend" who has a problum, she cuts her self,what should i do???
2007-01-26 21:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by Kate P 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You should find her help, and no don't go to her mom...don't let her know right now though. her mind is in a different "mode" so if you let her know you are telling somebody she will think you have befriended her. When she has got help she will thank you for being the real friend. A lot of cutters have underlying problems that nobody knows about. GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-27 13:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by hypnotic_wht_grl_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as she's enduring the pain and internalizing it and being more 'past' than present, then there's nothing you can do. You can suggest it, but the best thing for her would be talking it out, letting the poison out and not holding it in. Then doing positive things to move on. Or trying to remove her from the situation thats causing her pain. Apparently she's a very sensitive and emotional person and needs positive reinforcement and encouragement. Good luck!
2007-01-27 07:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by ... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would report this to authorities and let them deal with this situation. I feel that it takes a professional to deal with these types of issues and I wouldn't wait for very long to do it as she might cut the wrong place and bleed to death. I also believe that there is some sort of a deep mental problem with this person that needs to be addressed.
2007-01-27 05:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by darlin0043 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...Please tell someone..her family would be a good start, or a school counselor (if in school). She is hurting inside over something she does not have the coping mechanisms for. She really needs to talk to someone who understands. Support groups are a really good idea. When someone has been through what you have been through, it is easier to accept that they understand! It also makes it easier to understand that you are not alone in your pain.
2007-01-27 09:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Snowflake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a true friend of your's you will tell her family or some one that can make sure she get's the proper help before she get's it right and then you will always regret not doing anything to get her the help needed.there must be a lot going on with your friend to make her want to do this and to take it to this extreme is not good.remind her of all the good thing's in her life and see if she will get help willingly.good luck
2007-01-27 06:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your School psychologist he or she will know the proper channels to seek help for your "friend". Good luck.
2007-01-27 06:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how stupid is she tell her that if she wants real pain then go suffer in iraq ...scream at her .... i dont know why she is doing this but there is no reason good enough for doing something like that tell her what ever problem she has ...... suck it up and deal with it and fix it !!! tell your friend this and then tell some one else she needs help!
2007-01-27 05:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by no one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to stop cutting herself and see a shrink.
2007-01-27 05:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by joemamabob69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she has a problem. Seek help for her now.
2007-01-27 06:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, I have like 3 friends who do that and they are not even gothic, on one of them i told sumbody but they did know it was me, so they didn't get mad at me, and they quit! ^_^
2007-01-27 05:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Angel-gurl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋