i am a north indian and i love a south indian girl too much. she also loves me but now her parents have come to know about our relationship and they have looked her up in her house taken away her mobile phone and also made her leave her job. we can not talk we can not meet but i cant live without her. please help me.
2007-01-26 20:54:01 · 9 answers · asked by raj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
So there's no way you can get in touch, is it? What you've described is very typical in our society. But hold on. My first thoughts - not too big a problem. I can empathize with you and understand what you are going through. However, I wouldn't want to venture out and give you solutions or judgments of any sort without knowing your situation in detail.
One solution. Just relax for a while. Talk to her friend(s) if you know any and just keep yourself aware of what's happening at her end. That will give you clues as to what you want to do and how.
Siddharth (twentyfourbees@yahoo.com)
2007-01-26 21:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by twentyfourbees 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man, i know what you mean. i'm white, and my girl is pakistanian-muslim. of course you can see that her parents don't agree with her and me. her dad would never let her out, took away the phone. when he realized that we were talking over the internet, he got rid of that too. luckily we saw eachother at school and stuff...and there wasn't much he could do about that. that's when he moved his family an hour and a half away...severing all contacts with my now-future wife. what finally happened is, she turned 18, and left. when her parents were at work, i drove the 250 miles from my college to her new home in my small car and packed up all her stuff and brought her home with me. yea, i feel really bad, and so does she, but that was the only way we could see things through. it really sux, the whole culture differences and all...i say if you guys love eachother...don't let parents ruin it. this is the 21st century...not the fifth. i mean...if religion/culture is more important than love to you, listen to her parents. if you think love is above all...don't ever give up. save your princess man..
(by the way, my girl and i couldn't see eachother for a whole 7 months, until she sneaked out on her birthday. the next week was when she moved out....so you might have to wait for a while...but its all good cuz love will wait...if it can't wait...its not love...)
2007-01-26 21:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by zeek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mom is doing this to guard her son. His mom is from the previous college. If i've got been his father i could be frightened too if my son grew to become into relationship a single mom. Alarm bells might without delay circulate off. What u ought to do is concentration on being a competent gf. Dont deliver any drama into his existence, confirm the babies father doesnt attempt to reason issues, and dont spend that lots time around his mom and be respectful.
2016-09-28 01:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it really depends on how old you two are. If you are a bit older, like 18, then I say pursue a relationship if thats what you want. If you are younger, then you kinda have no choice but to accept the parents will for now. Shame on them for disciminating on race. But maybe you can do little things in your community to show them that you are not what they think of you and perhaps they'll give you a chance!
2007-01-26 21:07:29 · answer #4 · answered by jennafisch1285 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
whatever this people say i agree with that. this is 21st century. leave all behind like cast, religion. Love is above them. Take
u r g/f in confident. another thing is that can able to stand on ur own. I mean finicially. If it is that. Nobody will goin to stop from u r ultimiate goal
Best of Luck
2007-01-26 22:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they say "Miyan Biwi Raji To Kya Karega Kazi'
2007-01-26 21:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by pankaj s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
typical indian scenario, just go for it i mean u don't want to have a relationship w/ someone ur parents approve of...just do it and worse comes to worse they'll disown u but u can always jump back from all that...i am one cold b****.
2007-01-27 03:03:43 · answer #7 · answered by anonydipity_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying to get in touch with her and as she was working it seems that u both r adult. if u both really luv each other try to convince her parent through yrs or a close frnd/ relative. if this does not work, run away and register yr marriage in court.
2007-01-26 23:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by s l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If is true love waits!
2007-01-26 23:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋