im 16 1/2 soo give me answeres that are short!!! okay!! um yeah..
well is sex before marrige wrong?? me and my friend i guess a "friend"(sp) and i have thought bout it but yeah i was wondering is it wrong to think about it (like yeah u know wat i mean)? or even having sex??please i was wondering we love each other if i didnt i wouldnt but up with his bullshit!! please..i do not want to upset my lord even though i i know i really do love him
2007-01-26 19:43:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I see several red flags here other then having sex before marriage. You say that if you did not love him, you would not put up with his "BS" That is a red flag. It already shows that the relationship is in trouble before you begin.
As to sex before marriage YES it is sin.
Why, God knows that sex leads to...children. Children need a stable relationship and they need BOTH parents...a MOM and a DAD. This will not be possible without a commitment by both the mother and father which is best shown in their commitment to each other in marriage.
There is always a cost for sin. It always cost more then we can afford and it always cost others then the one doing it.
It is the hidden cost for sin:
http://www.shatterdmen.com/HIDDEN%20COST.htm
Sex before marriage could result in an unwanted child. It will force both partners to feel trapped. There are many men who will run like a scared rabbit when they get a girl pregnant. There are also many women who tell a man "I can not get pregnant in order to trap a man into marriage.
It will cause heartache with both parents of the soon to be parents. It will most of all cost the child. Are you ready to pay that price?
One last thing...TRUE LOVE WAITS!
The best gift any woman can give her future husband is her unused body. The best gift a man can give his future wife is his unused body.
2007-01-26 21:09:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex out of the frame of marraige is called 'adultry'; not only in Islam, but in all religions. This is fact that somehow has become forgotten. Yes, it is a sin; a major one.
There is a difference between thinking of something and doing it. A sin is not a sin until it is committed.
Peace
2007-01-26 20:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by daliaadel 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm about your age too and I've come across this too! All I can say is, WAIT...do NOT do it! Even if you love your friend, I say wait until you're 100% and TOTALLY sure about it! I've not done it yet, but I say it's a good idea to wait coz it's not right at this age!
2007-01-26 19:58:45 · answer #3 · answered by -♦One-♦-Love♦- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. After marriage also if you do it for other reasons than procreation.
Catholic priests can get a waiver.
2007-01-26 19:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please listen, don't do it. If you do, you will feel very guilty and no one will have to answer your question; you'll know the answer. Waiting is absolutely worth it.
2007-01-26 19:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Garius 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a sin, but as long as you live, sins can be forgiven. Repent, repent, repent! lol
2007-01-26 19:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by JRela2000 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Honey PLEASE wait. you are so young. Just wait a while and see what happens. so much can happen if you have sex before marriage. if you need to talk please email me. I want to help you. please just wait. don't have sex yet please
2007-01-26 19:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by Proud Mommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTIONS ARE SIMPLY.............
NO and
YES.
2007-01-27 16:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by zzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋