me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and haven't gone past kissing? we don't even use tongue! i want to, but i'm definitely not the type of person that can just stick my tongue down a guy's throat. i don't even know if he wants to go further!!! help!!!
2007-01-26 19:27:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
usually the guys are desperate...haha.. anyw, 7 months isnt tad short.. soo, just continue the relationship like normal.. talk to him abt more deeper stuff.. see how he reacts.. and maybe kiss him..using the tounge...there's nthing wrong... soo.. good luck..hope everything works out..;)
2007-01-26 19:34:37 · answer #1 · answered by Redweedplace ® 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a guy myself, i'll tell you right now: he definitely wants to go further. How far obviously depends on his/your age (how old are we talking?), morals, and prior sexual experience. If none of these really seem like an issue, i'd actually recommend being forward yourself, no matter how uncharacteristic that might be of you. For all you know, he's thinking the same thing. "Jeez we've been together 7 months and she won't even make out with me!" In this case, it's a little harder for guys to be forward a lot of times, just because it's easy to be intimidated by a girl, especially if he's inexperienced.
But i'm about 99.9% sure if you were to slip him a little tongue he'd gladly accept. Just make sure it's at the right time and place. Be alone, and create a moment. Trust me, guys almost ALWAYS want to go a little further with their girlfriends - especially at this particular stage of things. I'd go even so far as to say simply mentioning it to him would work out. Because of the nature of males, we're never really uninterested in our female counterpart's sexual interest. I'll bet you could just ask him about it (in a gentle, cunning way) and you'd get what you want sooner or later.
Good luck there.
2007-01-26 19:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by danny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to believe me. Seven months and you've not gone past kissing?! Just take initiative and I guarantee you he'll be happy. If you don't start doing something he may not see this relationship going anywhere and go find someone else who will satisfy his urges.
2007-01-26 19:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a guy. Of course he wants to go further.
2007-01-26 19:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Winnipeg76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 MONTHS! What r u waiting for! If you've been together that long I can assure you he is ready. Maybe he's not totally out yet & that's his concern.
2007-01-26 20:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by Psychic Sk8r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are curious you should just ask him do u wanna go a little bit farther.... and if you want to he probly wans too also but maybe not trying to rush you
2007-01-26 19:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by playing w/ his package. wait if yall been dating for seven months and he hasnt done anything somethings up. how old r yall?
2007-01-26 19:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, he'll go just as far you want. Just open the door and he'll be there...
2007-01-26 19:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus giv it a go and c
2007-01-26 19:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its now or never
2007-01-26 19:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Stifler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋